My friend Tibor and I are close. We're both over 30 in a program dominated by women. In our first year, he separated from his wife, but not before some interesting news. Prior to the divorce, he would tell us of times that he had to console his wife because her boyfriend broke up with her. They were polyamorous but still married, so she got a boyfriend and the boyfriend dumped her, then my friend had to console his wife because her boyfriend dumped her.

Fast forward a couple years, he's in another polyamorous relationship and gets punched by one of the lesbians in the triad. Now he is sad that there are double standards about abuse and about common decency. That's all, thanks for your attention.