A little more than a year ago I was an 18 year old virgin. Now over a year later, I have a HB8 girlfriend, in the best shape of my life, and feeling fucking great. All of this is because I found this subreddit. I am not kidding, this subreddit made me realize how much of a little blue pill bitch I was. Accepting that was so hard and I cringe looking at my futile efforts at getting girls for the past four years. I realized women were not the goal, but rather I wanted to just make the best version of myself. Leaving high school and starting a new life at a good college with a very active social life helped me even more. I got more consistent with my fitness, focused on my school, never said no to an opportunity to socialize, and honestly just made sure I always kept frame. The first semester of school I was spinning plates and frankly the hookup scene got old. Fucking a girl doggy style when I barely know her just felt wrong even when they were hot. I finally met this one girl who was different and she was very into me (only worth pursuing girls that are very into you, don't go chasing those hoes). She asked me to be FWB mid fuck before break, and I made sure to not talk to her much over break because we lived in different states and I wanted her to wonder what I was doing all the time. When we got back to school I waited for her to hit me up and start things again. From there it formed into a LTR, and I made sure to make sure she was LTR material. This girl is loyal, crazy in bed, not a bitch, and my family loves her. Without this subreddit none of this would have happened. You got to stay interesting. I always keep my frame, which is hard, but thats why even when I got more success, I kept coming back here. Never thought I would be making one of these posts, but I just wanted to share some success for those who are doubting.