Hey fellas.

Just wanted to post something I wish I had read at some point.

I know sometimes we get caught up in all the hate and the fervor when we realize what an utter shitshow dating and married life can be.

Sad as it may be though- at the end of the day we can be just as easy prey to the chemistry of our brain as women are. Our very nature is trying to convince us that the next girl might be the one, and that mythical white picket fence with 2 kids and a golden retriever might be around the next corner.

For those like me who still find themselves falling into the fantasy and hoping that we could find our endgame- I just want to say it’s not your fault. We were all raised on a lie we wanted so desperately to be true, it’s going to take quite a long time to stop waking up and dreaming of it.

it’s not your fault. Don’t be ashamed of it, but do be aware. Keep your eyes open, keep your mind clear, and enjoy life as much as you can. Peace to you all my brothers.