Hi, I'm living for first time this strange situation and wanted to ask for help in this community full of wisdom. (sorry for my english)

I have girlfriend, she is perfect, been 6 years toghether and don't have much problems, but I start to see some stange things and maybe some of you have been already in the same path and can give me a lil bit of light. First problem: sex. Was wonderful at the begining but since we live toghether (2 years) it decreased in both ways (quality and quantity). I said OK, be patient, keep going becouse I love her.

So the second thing that start bothering me is that I see that the fuckin house is not clean and I feel disappointed like a man, I have to do my ironing and stuff. OK, I can do it, but things start to be frustrating.

But the final thing that makes this mixture look incomprehensible to me is the obsession for the gym. I understand that you love to do sport and be in good shape, but when is coming priority in your life...

So I have this nice girl, amazing body but zero passion. (from her side, becouse i still want her like always).

You may say - well probably you fat and don't brush your teeth- but I lift, still in good shape and get looks from girls everywhere.

The interesting thing here is the narcisim and the obsession for the gym, I don't know where this is going, but want to be prepared for the coming, that's why I ask you for advice.

Kaba1.