TL;DR My grandma is trying to pressure me into getting into a relationship by shaming and other female tactics. How should I deal with it fellas and your thoughts and experiences you may have had with this.

I love my grandma dearly. She has been nothing but kind to me ever since I was a child but boy does she display female nature. Whenever we get on the topic of girls and I tell her I'm not interested and that it will cost me too much in the long run and how they are liabilities (want my money, time, etc.), She tries to pull the whole, NAWALT nonsense, call me cold, and how's sad how I'm gonna be all alone and how it's good to have a woman in my life. There will also be times where she'll randomly ask me if I'm gay or not and why I "still" don't have a GF yet. We were watching a lifetime movie together (I like to spend time with her) and a guy was white knighting to a woman. He was investigating her house for a stalker/murderer when in fact she was harming herself and making up stories for attention and sympathy from him. The woman was basically manipulating him into having sex with her and to cheat on his wife. I called the woman out on her bs and my grandma asked if I would do the same thing. I told her "hell no." Why would I risk my skin for a random woman I hardly know. She could be doing anything. She asked me why I wouldn't be a protecter of women and I said that makes no sense risking my skin for a legit stranger. I told her I would risk it for a very select few of women (like my mom, her, and a select few others). Her hamster was spinning so fast I couldn't believe it. She couldn't wrap her head around it and and resulted to shaming me about how I will be alone and know women wouldn't want me if I behave that way. This was when I was semi red-pilled without even knowing what it was or MGTOW. I Just felt it was common sense. I feel l as if her hive mind is tryna force me into submission and I know all to well about female nature from my fellow MGTOW brotheren on this forum. Once my grandma came into my room all puppy dog eyed and with a sad voice telling me she was hungry. I called her out on her bs and said the reason I did that was so you would sympathize with me. Last but not least on her nonsense she tried to manipulate me into disliking my grandfather (they are divorced). My grandfather is the one who raised me and was my male role model and a fine one at that. He is the person I love most in this world no competition. Much greater than my own mother. I think my grandmother despises that and is jealous of it and wanted to sabotage my relationship with him by telling me all his mistakes he had made as a young man. She tried to sugar coat with telling me how I should love him despite it yatta yatta. I just want to know how should deal with this and your thoughts on the matter. My grandma is by no means a mean person and has shown NAWALT qualities I won't get in to in this post. Also it's getting towards the point where my mom is getting on my case too with the same bullshit. Even my grandfather who is one of the most alpha people I know is getting in on it a little (He's been thru 2 divorces). Just want a little help and a convo on the matter.