Just thought I'd share some personal experience with you guys, in case anyone here finds it helpful.

Should have seen me when I was 400lbs. I was an 18 year old virgin, and my highschool years were nothing but insults, bullying, and public humiliation from women and their studs. Once I gave up junk food and slimmed down, the same women who insulted me now fawn over me. I never told them I was the same guy, but it was a good moment of revelation. Let no woman tell you looks don't matter. They do.

It took me 6 months of daily 2-4 hour workouts, no soda, no sweets. Raw work, meat, fruits, and vegetables.

My game sucked, and it took me hundreds of approaches over several months to overcome the pain of rejection and my approach anxiety. @ 19 years old, I had my first gf, who overcame her approach anxiety by giving her number to my grandmother to give to me. Funny thing is, I didn't even know she existed, and even thought the other girl was the one who gave me her number. I put the note in my pocket, and spend the rest of the night overthinking what to do next. Sometime the following day, I text her "hey, this is the grandson of the woman you gave your number to last night".

She replied that she was surprised/super happy that I contacted her, etc, etc. After texting for 2 days, I text "mind if I go down on you?" (something I read online when researching how to not fuck this up. Yeah, told you I overthink things a lot.) and she just says "if you want...", clearly wanting me to take the lead.

I lost my virginity the same night.

No date, no dinner, no condoms, no money, no car, and we fucked for hours in my aunts dirty garage (my home at the time).

Looks matter. Become physically attractive, and stop thinking you need money to get laid.

Using money to get laid is like using medicine to cure depression. It's a fast & easy solution with a lot of negative potential side effects.