Hello, I'm looking for sources about divorce, more specifically the divorce filled because of an abusive husband or wife. Stats needs to be gendered, so I know the percentage of man cutting lose and the percentage of women cutting lose. Source from the US would be good, France would be awesome, but I can settle down for the UK.

I basically need it to tackle the myth of the violent husband, since I discovered that when it comes to child abuse, the mother is the abuser in 54% of the case, the murderer in an infanticide is 71% the mother, and 60% of the abused children are boys.

Sources: https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/childmaltreatment-facts-at-a-glance.pdf http://www.breakingthescience.org/SimplifiedDataFromDHHS.php