Hello all, first post on this sub so give me a break with some terminology, swallowed the pill about 2 months ago but unknowing already had decent knowledge about theory and game. Matched with HB7 on Tinder, traded 3-4 messages about her dog before she gave me her snapchat and I messaged her the next day telling her I’m going to be in her city and inviting her out for a drink to watch football. She tells me that she has to work and housesit that day otherwise she would love to. The next part is amazing. I text her “Well I’m sure there will be another opportunity down the road, I’ll just ask my other friend. Ttyl.” Immediate DREAD game activated. She messaged back in 30 seconds saying that I should give her more notice, I shouldn’t get butthurt since she was busy, and tells me I’m never talking to her again. Deleted me off snap. 30 minutes later, the hamster was already on the wheel. She readds me, says she’s sorry, wants me to come over. Ignored her for 4-5 days, finally messaging her back on Friday saying I was busy all week with school. Set up plans for Saturday night to come over to see her dog. You can put together what happened next.

Lessons learned...

  1. Abundance is your best play and dread game is your best playbook

When’s she realizes she is just on option and you aren’t an orbiter, the hamster starts running

  1. Patience

I could have easily messaged back the same night she flipped and set something up but you can’t reward bad behavior. I took my time and let’s things play out. Don’t underestimate the power of patience

  1. SMV

Is it even a TRP post if you don’t mention SMV?Here is a daily reminder to everyone reading this that SMV is #1 above all else and you can’t pull this shit without improving yourself and becoming the best possibly version of yourself. Keep pushing this week and work towards whatever goals you have set for yourself, whether it’s improving frame, fitness, or your financial situation.

  1. Dogs are the best wingmen