After yet another conversation with an ex of mine; she is very candid and we both know nothing more is going to happen so no one has anything to lose...

She told me what I already knew; women don't often physically get off during sex, a dildo is more efficient than a man at that.

They do however get off mentally on the attention, feeling wanted etc... and this is what (along with imperious urges to procreate after a certain age) keeps them coming back for sex, random sex (ideally with a social higher up) is better because they get attention from someone new, they get to feel wanted by someone new.

NOW! When you slap social media on this... It is no wonder women are clinging to their phone like their life depended on it.

To sum it up, their phone mentally gets them off ! Everytime someone likes their shit, everytime they get a message from some dude (even unattractive ones), she mentally gets off.

I still have some social media, while I do appreciate when someone likes my work (photography, graphic design) I don't get a buzz from it making me think "omg I gotta have more!". Same with messaging I use it to communicate about topics that are of importance to me at the time, not to do chit-chat, I don't get off on random chatter.

Social media is ruining women.