I am as much of a MGTOW as the next person, I am against the idea of relationships and will never pursue one, but my philosophy behind my choice to go MGTOW and my outlook on women is a bit unorthodox compared to the majority of my fellow MGTOW.

First of all I reject the concept that all women are hypergamous and that hypergamy is the only motivating force, because personally I have seen highly educated women date and get married to men who are not any more wealthy than she is, for example this one Woman I know who has two university degrees divorced a millionaire for a short dude who is a barely educated bus driver on minimal wage and she is attracted to him because he reminds her of her 5 foot father who has a poor paying job as a taxi driver and she even had a baby with him not long after they met if hypergamy was the solely motivating factor that attracts women to men then explain that? In my opinion women are deep down sexual animals motivated primarily by sex while hypergamy is a recent social construct, I am not saying that hypergamy isn’t a important driving force but you have to look at things on a case by case basis and I believe that ultimately the majority of women would go for a man that has features of her father because from a early age that forms the blueprint in their mind for a providing guardian type figure and what the “ideal man” is and since all our dads are different it can vary tremendously from woman to woman, hypergamy is important but at the end of the day once the rich dude is sucked dry she is going to go for a father figure reminiscent of her dad and stay with him from that point on because once the materialistic phase is complete the sexual more biological instinct phase kicks in which evolved in our tribal past when money didn’t exist

Also another different philosophy from my fellow MGTOW is that unlike most MGTOW I don’t think that a good relationship between a man and a woman is impossible, personally I think it’s just very unrealistic and dating is comparable to gambling but there are all sorts of people out there and not all women are the same and there are a small minority that can relate to men better than women just like how there are all sorts of outliers in this world like people who are 8 feet tall and convinced flat earthers , does that mean that we should waste our time looking for a NAWALT? Absolutely not while the concept of find a NAWALT is possible in theory it’s not realistic and it would not work for 99% of us, for me MGTOW is not about what’s possible or not, it’s about what’s realistic and having a successful relationship with a woman is about as likely as anyone of us becoming a millionaire through gambling in the sense that it almost never happens to the average guy even though it’s possible, I also look as the risk vs the rewards when it comes to dating, the odds are while you have a small (very small) chance of meeting a decent woman but then again there is even a greater chance of going through a bitter divorce, being left with child support or getting “Me Tooed” and ending up in prison, it’s not just women, I apply that mentality to every other “pipe dream” in life.

So that is my controversial interpretation of MGTOW, question is what is yours?