The real imbalance, the one that hurts, is the difference between men and women under the spotlight of loneliness. Women never really feel true isolation, unless they have severe mental issues or a remarkable lack of beauty, and even then not so much. Men on the other hand, regardless of how great, experience loneliness that a woman could rarely handle sans a complete mental breakdown.

The Reality Of Supply

In some way, we're all a little bit narcissistic. We all crave 'supply.' What is supply? Supply is the need for sexual and emotional validation. We are born to desire sex and emotional validation BIOLOGICALLY. This is not a weakness or flaw in thinking, this is biology. Minus being completely asexual (from a genetic defect) we all have this desire.

Women have a much easier time gaining 'supply.' A woman's life is a barrage of free banquets. Banquets in which she receives daily solicitations in her mailbox for restaurant invitations and free meals. She will rarely go a day without a full belly, and a full 'supply.' She has no need to think of where and when her next meal will come.

The man, however, will make dozens of reservations at overbooked restaurants, only to be declined time and time again. He will spend years slaving to save the money required to buy his way into the exclusive seating list and to buy his overpriced steak. He will spend weeks, perhaps months, peering into the restaurant windows in the cold outdoor weather, going another night hungry. After his meal, that he slaved so hard for, the next question he asks himself is, "When will I eat again?"

The Great Distance Between The real suffering of men, that causes us to make so many dumb choices always falls under the question of "When will I eat again?" If you want to ascend this sad situation men face, you have to be willing to NEVER eat again. Understand that LONELINESS is only a matter of fear between meals. You need to fill your time in between meals, should you choose to eat, with something more important than the meal itself. Loneliness may only be combated by addressing FEAR and filling time with more important pursuits - a different and more filling form of supply.

Change the way you see sexual validation. It's nothing more than a nice meal, but if you don't eat it, you'll get on'. When you do get it, it's once again just a nice meal.