I'm currently a junior going to a commuter college in the city, which for those who dont know means that it has a dead social environment. Compared to the larger state schools, we have next to no interesting clubs, bars, or student life in general.

I've made tremendous progress going from a shut in to lifting, taking dance lessons, and picking up a few hobbies but I still cant help having feelings of jealousy and resentment towards my brother who has the opportunity to go to a larger school, live on campus, and just have a killer college experience compared to mine. I see his posts about all the parties, girls he gets to hang out with, and the amount of social life he gets by going to another school. I'm legitimately giving it my best effort to make friends and socialize in school and have managed to make couple friends in this environment.

My questions for you guys is how do deal with feelings of jealousy towards others? At the end of the day I guess I miss having validation and being apart of a group, how can I get over this?