Question for MGTOW.

DCrane09 · 2018-06-22T02:06:17+00:00

Demographics don't matter. I was with a straight laced, raised religious woman who had a great relationship with her family. We went out for almost 8 years with only minor things being red flags to me. I always had a suspicion she didn't love me but kept telling myself I was crazy because "she says she loves me". I was a moron. She turned out to be the biggest back stabber of them all. The whole time she didn't give a shit about me. They're all like that. It really doesn't matter where they come from.

DCrane09 · 2018-06-22T03:07:06+00:00

"and not getting married until I complete said goals"

... This genuinely does not belong here on MGTOW.

DCrane09 · 2018-06-22T02:05:43+00:00

I’ll save you the trouble AWALT. I’ve fucked maybe 20-30 broads in my life and 3 LTR. Prob low middle class to upper middle class upbringings. I never went for the rich girls or the trailer trash. My brother married a doctors daughter and both he and she are doctors and married 2 years and she’s cheating on him left and right. My three LTR

Age 23, Nurse who shaved my crotch in preparation for a hernia repair. She gave me a raging hard on, which she took as a compliment, and told me to call her when it was usable again, which I did. Her parents were OK. Middle class: teacher and machine shop dude. She got tired of me, cheated, and monkey branched.
Age 26, Nurse introduced to through a male friend. She had a single mother who worked a corporate job somewhere. Quiet little mousey thing but a devil in the sack. She loved anal sex lol. Also played with water sports with me and liked her leather crop. We never really hit it off outside of bed and after I moved to philly she went back to live with her mom. Never really kept in touch with her after that. Just a few weekend visits to fuck at first and then she said no more.
Age 30 met number 3 on fetlife.com but she was actually working at the same company I was. She had just finished her undergrad degree and has aspirations for high finance, pursuing her masters, etc. Korean but a total slut. We dabbled in the dark side of sex for a while and then both kinda simmered down after a year. She may or may not have been faithful to me for the 3 years we lived together. The last six months I know she wasn’t. Upper class parents from Korea but the appreciation for culture never really was passed down to daughter.

The other broads I fucked were mostly hookups from bars or friends. No real trend here. No unicorns. Nothing. One of my first lays was I knew from junior high, good family went to bible study and was all about Christianity. I looked her up 5 years ago and she’s got 3 kids, tats all over, and cropped hair dyed green. Like I said man, AWALT.

DCrane09 · 2018-06-22T02:29:34+00:00

What I’ll say is this, if I ever get involved with a woman again I’ll have several rules to protect myself.

never get emotionally or financially invested
never cohabitate or get married and also obviously string out my front of indecisiveness for as long as the relationship suits my purpose
place absolutely no trust in her all all, no keys, no access to financial documents, phone, etc. Signed consent and potentially recorded sex.
GPS her car so I can more easily check when she starts lying to me about monkey branching.
Financial contributions to joint activities must be balanced ideally 50/50’but no less than 66/33.
Assume she will cheat, lie, steal, betray with no warning not necessarily in that order.

DangZagnut · 2018-06-22T02:01:59+00:00

I had a question for you guys pertaining to your bad experiences with women.

Never had a bad experience.

What I'm really interested in is where you met these women, how you met them, how easy were they, where did they grow up (in the hood, country side, etc.), what type of family they came from, etc.

Everything from Christian potato farmer's daughters to radical feminists. From either university, or meeting online, or at parties.

They never went wrong. Some were better than others certainly. The radical feminists were the most kinky.

My own answer to this is the women that I had bad experiences with were the ones who had daddy issues

I find them to be the best ones for my purposes.

and if you became emotionally involved.

Sure, sometimes and at different levels depending on the chemistry. Same goes to sexual interactions. If I dated a stripper or escort, I didn't waste emotional energy on that, the farmer's daughter I had more emotional energy with.

But now I don't do that stuff, so it no longer applies.

Arc175 · 2018-06-22T03:14:42+00:00

Holy shit have standards fallen. Somehow you saving yourself for marriage until you reach your goals, that constitutes a Man Going his own Way? Baffling. Save yourselves.

LordNuts · 2018-06-22T09:48:56+00:00

So you think your girl is one of those NAWALT? Wait till you get married. Good luck.

SimplyKaz · 2018-06-22T10:15:27+00:00

You can't be in a relationship and a MGTOW.

You may not like this but you love and marriage doesn't fucking exist for women. Their 'love' is so different to ours it's not even the same thing.

I can't really call you a MGTOW if you're in a relationship and . I used to call myself MGTOW when I was in a relationship but I was nowhere close. I was a fucking pussy. It's easy to say you're MGTOW when you've got a girl, not when you're on your own and doing everything yourself and going your own way. That takes true resolve because there's so many traps laid.

And as for this demographic bullshit, that has nothing to do with it. It's not about upbringing as much as it is female nature. All women are like this, AWALT! I've seen very conservative, religious god loving girls who are freaks on a Saturday night but they're at church the next day pretending they haven't been out all night acting like whores. I've know nice middle class girls who I've been to school with who've hit an N count of over 50 before they were even at the legal age to have sex. They're sly and you're falling right into their trap.

Let go of the idea of marriage and happy families because it's a pipe dream and it'll fucking kill you. If you want kids there are better ways to go about it than playing russian roulette.

labiteatibit · 2018-06-22T12:56:14+00:00

The ones with daddy issues are the poster children for don't stick your dick in crazy. I know they are demons in the sac but they will also take your soul. Risk vs reward.

glad2besad · 2018-06-22T08:09:17+00:00

Do not get married. Period. Learn from the others. Assume your GF will betray you at some point.

You should have seen all the love letters and shit I burned that my ex gave me, talking about getting married and having a family together. One day, out of the blue, she tells me she’s out, makes me pack up her car, and from then on she was ice cold. Just a couple weeks later she’s ENGAGED to some Air Force guy she met while visiting another state. Apparently she’s moving to a Japan base for 3 years now. Sounds like fun for a 20 year old.

I was 110% invested in her emotionally, and when she pulled the plug I was traumatized so badly I almost committed suicide. MGTOW and taking red pills was by far the most effective medicine for me, and I know never to do that shit again. I don’t regret the time I spent with her but I’m done with relationships. Enjoy your time with your GF, the clock is ticking.

Title	Question for MGTOW.
Author	Arc175
Upvotes	8
Comments	28
Date	June 22, 2018 1:53 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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