I got into trp because I thought its fundamental message was chasing goals over women. At this point in my life, I'm very interested in self development and as a result I started following trp and thus this subreddit. But since I've been in here, most of the content have pretty much been to figure out some chick or how to get more girls... subjects I find shallow. Yes I have needs, like everyone else, but the anxiety of not achieving my goals far outweigh those a woman or a lack thereof can provide.

I'm young, but I was younger 2 years ago and was even younger before then. Time is a luxury I can't afford. I'm not as rich or fit as I would like to be or in a favorable position that I would like to be in at this point in my life. I am inadequate to the requirements of my life goals and as a result, I don't want women to be in my thought process as I push them out when even a few try to creep in. I don't actively chase women and even at that, I have rejected at least 3 girls since covid hit and even told one directly that she's a pleasant distraction that I can't afford to have.

Self development is something I'm very serious in cus that's what I believe I need at this point in my life. I'm downright uninterested in most of the posts I see on here which are basically "how to game women", posted by mostly other young guys around my age if not older. Am I right to feel this way or is this subreddit supposed to be about just getting "plates"?