EDIT: changed the title

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Let me start by saying that I'm new to the red pill, I've been non stop reading about it for the past two weeks.

I live in an arab country, dating or meeting girls at a bar or casual sex is prohibited and could result in killing (not joking). I'm trying the red pill approach to specific girl, made a lot of mistakes so its gonna be a long post but i would appreciate if you would read it and point out what i did wrong

I've met a girl who lives in the same building. We exchanged numbers after I went over to say hi since I'm new in the building. We hit it off over texting, I know you guys only text for logistics but I live in an arab country and shes a religious girl so dating that sort of thing is not accepted. I used humor to break the ice and i thought it worked since after our first talk she kept initiating texts, so i took the chance and told her to come down to ground floor because i wanna se her. She goes down and we had our first 'date'.

Heres how the date went, trying to touch her was out of the question, since shes religious (wears hijab) so i tried to make eye contact and break it until she does. I think it worked because every time i stared her in the eye she would try to hold it but then look away smiling and say so you do that to all the girls you meet. We talk a bit and say hit me with "your really mean i might block your number" i hit her back "meh i dont care" and she actually blocks me, i knew she was testing me since she didnt leave after blocking me.

The next day she unblocks me and sends me a text sayinh Im a douch i agree and amplify. I then tell her to come down i want to see her, only this timw i get physical, i start playing games with her that invloves touching hands blah blah blah.

Heres were i fucked up:

  • I was to available for her text
  • I didn't escalate enough
  • didnt show enough sexual intent

So the third date i noticed she wasnt being flirty enough so to not waste time i tell her "Im not hanging out with you to be just friends right" she answers back "I mean yeh" and she continuea to use religion card by saying "you and i are from different religion so i dont think it will work out" so i told her to hit me up if shes intrested in being more than friends and literally walked away. The next she texts me saying she agrees to having something other than friendship and she wants to meet up.

Two days later we meet and i try to game her better and escalate better, i start touchinh her hand and then back off a little then touchinh her again and back off..till i start touchinh her face. Again i live in a place were if her parents knew that im touching her face they would kill her. I tell her to take of the hijab so i can see her hair but she tells me she will never do that. I dont know if shes shit testing me or she actually means it. I simply replied with "Well see about that".

The last interaction was through text, i was busy and she kept texting me so i told her to stop it because its annoying and she got mad, she stopped texting and i havent contacted her since, it was 2 daya ago.

My take on this: I became a source of validation for this girl, i gave her attention without recieving sex so I already fucked up big time and I am not an attractive option to her. I think the best thing is to walk away and find a new girl, if she chases me im gonna tell her either to take her clothes off or stop contacting me.

Just remember that I'm taking this as a learning experience to better myself and not fall for another women trap.