So I have the impression with most of my colleagues and people around me I behave much more agreeable than I want to be and have to appease to them because most can’t seem to really take my banter and playfulness well. I prefer to be direct and sincere and that’s how I’d like to be treated myself.

I hold back a lot in fear of alienating people. My persona works with creating attraction with chicks but not so much in the social circles of colleagues. (In my Defence most of them don’t even lift lol)

I don’t consider myself tactless or rude but it seems I can only have that style of interaction with my best friends.

Is this because I’m a pussy or is it because people in my circles are too sensitive? Can anyone relate or possibly help a brother out?