Realization/advice

fuckhillaryinthebutt · 2017-10-16T08:00:15+00:00

You gotta reprogram your brain, realize that you feeling bad without a woman is due to social conditioning and brainwashing.
Stop giving a fuck about what other people thing about you. Alot of people say they don't give a fuck, but to truly not give a fuck you kind of have to have a shit load of confidence in yourself. I don't think there are alot of guys in their 20s that can do it.

Presto1036 · 2017-10-16T09:12:58+00:00

“Good investments are easy to find: you identify the bad investments, avoid those, and you’re left with a basket of fairly reasonable choices.”

Imagine if you had followed your plan and proposed, and then found out about her infidelity in five years when you had a couple of children with her. Many of your married friends are in that boat, whether they realize it or not.

When I think back to 21, I realize that the most important thing (not the only thing, just the most important), is to AVOID THE CATASTROPHIC ERROR. This is an error that you cannot recover from without monumental effort and time. I’m early 40s now and I can tell all of you younger guys that this is absolutely the cold truth.

Don’t get too hung up on worrying about how you will live a fulfilling life in the years to come; you’ve got options and can explore them at your own pace. But if you marry and have kids with a woman like your ex, there are no more options and your chance of fulfillment goes to almost zero. You’ll be going backwards.

The first step to building wealth is NOT to save and invest a little each time you get paid: it’s staying OUT of debt. The first step in having a good physique is NOT hitting the gym and lifting, it’s to stop filling your body with crap food and soda. Avoid doing harm, moving backwards, before you worry about moving forward.

Avoid the toxic and be wary of the pushers trying to literally get you to take the blue pill. If you were trying to lose weight, would a real friend bring you donuts? It’s easy to question your red pill mindset when all around you seem “happy” with the blue pill. Don’t do that. Their day will come, I promise you. Keep your center, keep your eyes clear, and the rest will follow...don’t be in a hurry to figure it all out.

Life will teach you.

mthrowaway52 · 2017-10-16T07:08:21+00:00

I live a fulfilling life by doing whatever I want without asking for permission to do anything or spend my own money.

If I wanted to, I could get up in the morning, rent a kayak, and spend my entire Monday kayaking until my arms fall off.

I could also go and rent a boat and go fishing.

Hell, I live in a big city. I could probably take a plane, have lunch somewhere 5 states away, and be back home before sundown. Although that does sound like kind of a waste of money.

My life is great because I can do whatever I want. I set up enough passive income streams in my 20s, thanks to mgtow principles of not spending money on bitches, that now in my 30s I do what I want to do.

I'm fully expecting to spend a couple thousand dollars at home Depot in the next few weeks for my next crazy project.

ImmortanV8 · 2017-10-16T08:28:05+00:00

Start giving things and people the value they deserve b.c. they are being good to you, and not by the value other people or the society gives them. Society values you as a male only if you provide your resources. But it never gives you something because it values you. Like marriage: no one fucking cares if you are happy, but if you smack your bitch because she was disrespectful, everybody comes upon you to discipline you. No one cares about you, maybe other than a few people. Loyal man that is.

Why should you care about what this selfish majority thinks about you? You will only feel as a looser if you have the need to be a part of this same majority that only tries to utilise you. The majority that values unproductive and destructive whores over pious and generous man who want to live a life on morality. Fuck this society!

Happiness comes from within, always and ever. It comes from the peace that you have with yourself and everything around you. Do not fall for the traps of your ego that says "you need this and that to get happy". That is always a lie we tell to ourselfs

kingscabber · 2017-10-16T09:32:07+00:00

I'm 30 and MGTOW to me is more about having a good life than doing everything in life. Despite having hobbies and passions we are all wired to some degree to want children and to bond with the opposite sex above all things but in our society this is too dangerous at the moment, so avoiding those things is the best way to go.

At the end of the day we all die in the end, so you might as well avoid the bad things and just try to enjoy yourself. Life isn't about getting the things you want, it's about trying to have the best life you can have despite the issues the world or your own biology might throw at you.

RedFoxOnFire · 2017-10-16T11:36:51+00:00

"how do you live a fulfilling life in your post 30's while single?"

you really think those guys who are married around 30 have fulfilling lives?

Here's what's going to happen to you.

You're going to work hard, focus on yourself, your hobbies and interests.

Girls will eventually start coming up to you because they see a resource. Turn them down.

Some guys will stop hanging out with you once they get into relationships. While sad, this has to do with their women not wanting their men to see the freedom available to them. "We're married, we should only hang out with married people. We're parents, we should only hang out with other parents." This is an attempt to control a man's world view so that their reality consists of only what their wives want them to be.

These married men aren't being fulfilled, they're being used as beasts of burden. They have to ask permission do go out for a night, or buy something they want with their own money.

My advice to you, work hard, enjoy yourself, save for retirement, and watch as time proves you right. All those men will be divorced, All Of Them, and they'll have to start over.

Title	Realization/advice
Author	High_altitude99
Upvotes	13
Comments	8
Date	October 16, 2017 4:58 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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