Like many of you I was brought here through a horrible relationship. I moved to my ex’s town to be closer to her and on my second day in town she ended things. Speculating on why she did is it’s own kind of hell. Thankfully because of my job I was able to travel out of state for the last 3 months. While away I was able to let go of a lot of the initial RP rage and it gave me some peace. Now I’m back and can feel it creeping back in.

Moving again isn’t an option right now. I’m trying to stay busy and that helps but I’m losing the motivation I had while away. Is there something else I should be doing besides working out, staying busy, and eating right? Venturing out in this town runs the risk of seeing her and I’ve taken pains to avoid that. Not at the point where I can see her and not go soft inside. Not yet. Maybe one day. Just can’t see it right now.

Has anyone had this problem of losing focus? How were you able to beat it? Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks brothers and have a great one.