My parents (very happily married) will eventually get to a stage where they'll start looking for a girl for me.
A bit a summary... I am 24 indian and my parents are very strict, cultural and old fashioned. I've told them that I will not get married until I am 27/28 because I want to make enough money for myself, enjoy life (still a virgin), purchase a house; basically have a strong foundation on where I can stand.
I am a big fan of MGTOW because they are in complete sense as to how the world favours women regardless of the situation, circumstances or the reason. This sometimes makes me worry because I am putting everything on the line which I've worked for.
However, I do want to have a family because it's one of the experiences that I want to experience. In indian culture, people will look at you differently if you are old and unmarried. Plus I told my mom that I want old fashioned wife which will stay at home, look after the kids (making sure they are brought up properly and well mannered).
So my question is what do I do because I am on both side of the fence? Are my views wrong about marriage? If so, how can I convince my parents otherwise?
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