What is the difference between learning from mistakes as you age and getting off cock carousel to get a beta provider?

PatnarDannesman · 2018-05-31T19:37:56+00:00

They haven’t learned. They just have fewer options.

ThePlague · 2018-05-31T19:47:27+00:00

If a beta refuses to provide and just dates that girl, he isn't a beta anymore. If a woman thinks she's off the CC and hooks up with a "non-providing beta", then she isn't. That's just her next.

Ghustgan · 2018-06-01T09:28:01+00:00

Here's an argument for you OP. So you're telling me, a girl who's 16-20, who's aware that she's hot and can get chads, actively chases them, plays with them, and has fun with them, is in any way stupid? And not only that, but you're telling me that all that she's been doing in that age, was just life teaching her stuff and that later she learned and matured? No.

She wasn't reactive, she was proactive. It was her all along. She simply changed the rules of the game later and with that, she appears like she's born anew to people who don't know her past. Depending on how hot she is when she says "Now I learned/know what I want", this can mean two things:

She's either had enough chad for now, but she can still get it, so she will, in time.
She can't get any chad anymore, she knows this, so she passive-aggressive slams it and has to settle.

This results in her going after guys she normally wouldn't go for. Sorry mate but let's get real here and I'll use myself as an example:

If I, as a social outcast and not playing any social games, knew what was up ever since I was 14 years old, these women who are in the middle of these social games not only know what's up, they're masters of them. I refuse to believe they are cruising along life being ignorant. Don't be this naive.

smflow · 2018-05-31T19:23:15+00:00

Those who learn do it at their own will. They can do stupid stuff but now they know better. Jumping off the carousel, at the end of the day, is mandatory.

Global_MGTOW · 2018-05-31T20:02:02+00:00

Hitting the wall sooner than most, that's it. Those who "learned" only learned because they hit the wall at a younger age than their peers and have learned that time is running out.

You can date a post wall woman but know that the majority of them are super baby crazy, and will do anything to get pregnant. You're also spending time and resources on a woman with a blown out vagina, if you're going to go after women, at least make sure they're in their early 20's.

Ex_Swm_Lfw · 2018-05-31T20:17:42+00:00

Yes. Big difference. “Learning from mistakes” has only the smallest amount of truth in it. Sleeping with Chad and his buddies wasn’t the mistake. Thinking she could actually tie one down was the mistake in her mind. That’s the mistake she’s learned, not that she doesn’t want Chad, she still does it’s that she knows she won’t be able to get Chad into a nice resource leeching relationship, so she has to turn that intention (not her sexual intentions) to the type of guy she can get to commit.

Women rarely if ever repudiate their choice to have great tingle chasing sex as wrong. And because she won’t, and because her sexual intentions are still not focused on Beta Bill, she is a much higher risk for infidelity. We call it impaired pair bonding and it’s observable.

If you want to soften the language but remain reasonably accurate. She’s concluding her stud chasing free sex phase and moving on to her husband chasing bartering sex phase. She will however miss stud chasing.

Sol_Install · 2018-05-31T22:19:40+00:00

They didn't learn shit. They are not more mature or whatever. A 18 year old single mom will paint herself as a victim and needs a Real Man who knows how to treat a woman and has family values. A 45 year old single mom wants the same thing. What you see manifest is who they want for benefits taking priority over who they want to fuck and breed with.

If a Beta chooses to date such a woman, he is going to get trapped. Meaning she will do whatever it takes to get him to marry/financially support/preg trap/etc. This is why so many women are against pre nups.

Title	What is the difference between learning from mistakes as you age and getting off cock carousel to get a beta provider?
Author	melniav0
Upvotes	2
Comments	17
Date	May 31, 2018 7:08 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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