After looking through this sub, I've seen a lot about not paying. Or at least, pay for the first and then put it on the lady/girl. My particular thing has always been, the person who first mentions food/drink, pays for it. I make this clear on the first date. If you text me and want lunch, you are paying for it. If we are already together and you want to go to a restaurant/club, you are paying. The same thing goes for me.

This may or may not be the best way to handle this, but it does seem to establish the boundaries that this sub feels is so important. What are your thoughts on this?

Edited for clarity