Double standards

Eh, to be fair, when folks are drunk and packed together, nobody notices anything. I was bouncing once on a new years in a bar with about 250 people packed in tightly and ended up intervening in a fight on the dance floor. While I was holding both guys away from each other and screaming at people to "Get the fuck out of the way!" I maybe got the attention of two or 3 people. I had to leave one of the individuals in the crowd while I dragged the other back. If I'd been a female bouncer, I'd have gotten my ass kicked and nobody would have seen shit.