https://np.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/71rq5f/am_i_29f_too_obsessed_over_my_children_5m_2m_my/

"I know that a large majority of moms probably feel a special kind of way toward their kids, but I've noticed that the feelings I have toward my kids can be a little...overwhelming? Literally on the day that I popped them out is when all the love I ever had for anyone shifted over to them. Whenever I look at my husband now, I don't really feel anything. My family I'm not really interested in talking to anymore, and I honestly hate it when anyone wants to hold or touch the kids."

I'm honestly in awe this is the most black and white example of why you should never get married. Even if you think the woman you are with is "the one" and you genuinely like her and think she likes you in return, you can find out in 4 years after you've already had kids with them that they just don't care anymore. You know that trend of women initiating 70%+ of all divorces that the news never likes to report on? It's going to keep going up up up.

First comment: "Do you want to be divorced? Do you want have 50/50 custody of the kids you claim to love so much? Because this is how you become divorced. Get the kids into their own beds asap. Make your husband your priority. I'm not saying ignore or neglect your kids, just put your husband first. Try it for 1 day."

Her response: "Well, considering I don't feel anything when I look at him, the thought of divorce doesn't bother me. I have tried putting him first, but it doesn't work. Its strained and awkward with no type of attraction or chemistry there....that's the problem."

Yeah the problem isn't her being batshit crazy about their kids like it's that there is no chemistry or attraction... of which there is on his side toward her but none of on her side toward him...

This shit can just happen out of nowhere. Never forget that, you may think everything is totally fine but in their twisted minds it can just end.