TL/DR Accept that you will fail to be successful and give yourself slack and honesty.

Ready, Set, Fail... Thats how some instances in life work out. I wanted to Write this in hopes to help out some of the guys new to TRP. Your're going to screw up. In fact you're going to blow it all the time. Part of being a strong man is accepting your mistakes, correcting what you can, and learning from them.

Most of the information we share on this Subreddit is from personal experiences. Trial and error. Those errors we all inevitably make are gifts. They give us knowledge, which is a gift we can give to the manosphere.

Rollo Tomassi stated , "Always Be aware of who's frame you're operating under". Read replies to just about any situation posted in TRP. You will notice a trend; Other guys projecting their egos through an off handed comment about the OP's performance.

"Bro, if your game was tighter she wouldn't do that". "Bro, you failed her shit test". "Broseph, you should have said this, I always do that with all my plates". "Don't spend the weekend with a plate Bro, shes wasting your time"....

Your goal as a man should be to operate within your frame. This should be a frame based in reality. If you are looking to TRP for validation, you are getting it from the wrong person. Look within yourself.

Here's the honest truth: Owning your shit, thats alpha. No one started off on here perfect. And no one on here is. There would not be any need for a RP without mistakes. No one, regardless of what they claim, will pass every shit test. No one will be so militant that nothing gets past them. No one is 100% prepared for any wild card scenario.

Cut yourself slack, you will fuck up. As long as you're improving that all that matters.

I consider myself succesful. Im happy, Ive got some high quality sexy plates and a few girlfriend. I can talk about myself honestly. And I measure my success by my standards not by someone elses.

Red pill theory is important to learn. But don't let it consume or control your life. If I want to spend the weekend with a plate, i do that. If im too tired to deal with a shit test I'll fail it. If I want to bang a fat chick for variety, I'll do that. I don't spend my whole life thinking, "is what I'm doing Red Pill or alpha?", I'm just living. I'm making mistakes, learning, and having fun. And Im laughing and owning my shit and fuckups.

Pull the stick out Bros. Its the easiest way to better yourself.