Summary:

Went out last night for about 1 hour and 45 mins and experienced three different scenarios, each and every single one of them confirming AWHTPTBLT and RP Truth.

Body :

A little background about me:

I'm 5' 11", 28 years old, Graduate Student in Engineering, my BS is also in Engineering. I have been working out on and off since I was 18, though when I got into my current LTR stopped working out. Picked it up back again about 2 1/2 years ago because of anxiety issues, and thus far was the only thing that got me out of my mental crisis. I weight 160 lbs right now, and last time I measure my body fat was at 12.1%, this was about 4 months ago, is probably lower now.

As I said before I am in an LTR 8 years +, with a f..k ton of issues. So for the last two years I usually go out on the weekends. My spouse doesn't like going out because she doesn't like dancing or the scene, but I do, so instead of staying home like I did for the first 5 1/2 years I decided to go back to the guy I used to be before I started dating her and started going out. I like dancing to Techno, Pop Music, Disco, and what people here call Euro-trash music. Is one of my hobbies, and apparently I have been told by several people, guys and girls that I am a really good dancer.

Yesterday was an interesting day. Since three different scenarios happened I want to break it down into the three scenarios.

Firstly I intended to go out at around 10:00 pm, but got caught up with spouse doing weekly shopping so ended up going out at 12:30 am. I know a lot of people here in town, so I text a couple of my friends to see what they want to do. One of them tells me he is watching a movie, the other is playing poker, the other doesn't answer. I decide to go out on my own, as it is not uncommon for me to go out on my own and then find people I know and can hang out with.

I get to the bar let's call it "Cantina". It has a bar inside and one outside in the back patio. It's packed, I get there and walk around and check out the area, can't find anybody I know. So I'm on my own. Being in an LTR has made me kind of lazy in terms of gaming since I don't want to spend my energy in underserving bitches. Now seeing as I might be ending my LTR soon for the last couple of weeks I have been dusting off my skills and sharpening them so I'm ready to get back on the field when the time comes.

Scenario-1:

I go to the front bar which isn't as packed as the back one. I stand in the middle of the dance floor, and there are a few mixed groups, guys+girls. There are two girls dancing by themselves, so I start dancing, but I feel awkward, for a moment I feel like people are judging me for being alone there, etc. I take a step back in my mind, and bitch slap my beta self. Then I go to the bar and order a shot of Whiskey, which is what I like drinking. I come back to the spot I was, and the two girls had move to that spot, so I stand at another place drinking my whiskey, and looking in their direction. They thing I'm gonna ask them out, or hope, I don't know, don't really give a shit, anyhow, they do their usual thing and take off. I move to my previous spot. Then there is a bench that is in the wall opposite to the bar. Girls usually stand in there and dance. I drink my Whiskey and get up there.

Now I am in the IDGAF mentality, and just want to have fun. So I start dancing. I see to my left there is a group of 2 guys and 2 girls, they appear to be couples to me at least. Not even 10 mins go by and one of them girls approaches me trying to imitate me and being playful with me. After 1 minute of her trying to get me to show off, I'm actually not showing off, just enjoying myself dancing. I get off from the bench where I was standing and dancing and down to the floor. I start teaching her the moves. She was cute, probably an HB7 or HB8. So I decide to start gaming her. I tell her if she likes playing games, she says "no" but ask me if I do. I begin to tell her that I just came from playing poker, and I'm gonna run a routine to test her "poker face". She is very interested, however before I can do anything, this other chick who was not part of the original group comes running to the rescue as a good mother goose that she is and tells me that they have to go home. The other chick doesn't want to go, but mother goose gives me a hug and tells me to have a good night. I tell her that I am having an awesome night!! So I ignore them two and go back to dancing.

I see mother goose leave by herself and this chick stays, but one of the guys seems like her bf or something because he is all touchy with her, but no make out kisses or any kisses though. I personally don't like or approve of dancing/hitting on somebody's gf because I wouldn't like people doing the same to me. So I stay weary of that fact. Not even 5 mins later, chick is back on my side trying to dance with me again. Now one of the guys(Not the one that chick was all touchy feeling with, but the other) approaches me, he ask for my name and complements me on my skills. The other guy is sitting by the bar, and he offers to buy me a drink. I accept! So he asks me what do I like and I say Whiskey. Then him, the chick that was dancing with me and I all take a shot of Whiskey, but he can't keep it down, almost pukes. I'm used to drinking Whiskey, obviously this guy isn't, and I'm not sure what kind of move he was trying to pull, but it obviously back fired when he ended up looking like a pussy because he couldn't take the alcohol. Anyhow, the guys start talking to me about what I do and what not, and I tell them, they tell me that they are students, etc.

In the meantime I see this other girl who is friends with the chick that was trying to dance with me. I find her attractive, he has one of those "innocent" girl look, and I am a sucker for those looks. Though I would promptly bang the one that was trying to dance with me, when I look over to her, she is getting hit on by some random black guy. I take the opportunity and ask guy who bought the drinks what's up with him and chick, he tells me they are just friends. Right there I make up my mind to ask chick that was dancing with me, who appears to be the alpha of the females to introduce me to her friend who was more my type. But next thing I know the two guys decide to leave and they are the girls ride. So I say good bye to them, and I go back to dancing.

End of Scenario-1.

Scenario-2:

10 minutes dancing by myself and yet another girl, this time from a group that was at my right approaches me dancing again. This one is blonde, tall 5'9" I would say and an HB9, though she is young 19. I thought she was there with her BF as he was hanging out with a guy who was pretty decent(no homo!) looking and fit. But nope, just another friend. Her friend tells me it is this girls birthday and if I can dance with her while they take videos. She takes pictures of us dancing, and is saying how cute with look together, etc. Even the guys are taking videos of me dancing. Then I ask girl if it is really her birthday and she says: "yes!", so I ask her how old is she turning, she says 19, and I say: "Ohmm, you are a little baby!" In a condescending, yet endearing voice. She appears obviously pissed off about what I just said, but I'm cracking up that she is pissed off about it. Then this other dude comes around and she goes off to him to tell him about what am amazing dancer I am, and wants to introduce me to him, also to show me, that she has yet another guy after her. I decide to mess with the guy and tell him: "So you are the one she is talking about that has mad dance skills and is gonna show me off!" He gives me a smile, and says: "no, she didn't say that, did she?" Then a third friend comes around yet another blondie, and now she is telling this other chick about me. But the time is already 1:46 am, and I have to go, and I don't feel like competing with all these guys(as I said I've gotten lazy), so I just bail on them by going through the back, not saying anything.

End of Scenario-2

Scenario-3:

Before I go home, I decide to go see my buddy Ryan who is a bouncer at another bar and just say what's up to him. When I go I find yet another friend of mine, Carlos, and he is with his roommate and 4 girls. I have met them last weekend, and ended up having to babysit them because they got all fucked up drunk. The girls are mostly HB5-7. The is a tall one, that I didn't pay much attention too last time, a short one that my buddy Carlos is hitting a blonde one, that's kind of chubby but has pretty eyes and a brunette that was the least drunk and the one I liked the most last time. However everytime I tried to talk to her(brunette) last weekend my buddy's roommate would cockblock me, to the point that I asked my buddy Carlos if his roommate was into her, or what the heck, to which Carlos replied, he is just being a bitch!

Last time I got paired up and was supposed to entertain miss Piggy blue eyes(Chubby blonde girl with blue eyes). Problem is, as I said she is a bit chubby, but has a pretty face, but she was so shit face, that I just couldn't stand her. The highlight of the night(last weekend) was me telling her to stop acting like a fucking little child, which is something she apparently understood very well, unlike the other things I was trying to talk to her, like when she thought she lost her f... friends and they just had gone to the bathroom.

Anyhow, I see them this time around, and the brunette is wasted, and Miss Piggy is actually sober, but what do you know, she is actually a bitch regardless. I see her, and tell her laughing the story about how she fell on water last weekend and started crying like a little girl. She is super pissed off at me. Then my buddy Carlos asks me if I can give them a lift home. I ask him how far away it is, and he says it's pretty closed by. I agree, but only because of him, not the girls.

As I am walking to my car, and mistakenly give the wrong reference as to where my car was, my buddy Carlos' girl start freaking out and asking me if I was drunk. I said, I have had 2 shots of Whiskey tonight, but I am no where near drunk/tipsy/buzzed. It annoys me a little bit though, because I am fucking doing them a favor! As we are walking towards the car, I get on and bench a tippy toe walk on it, and tell this girl: "See, if I was drunk could I do this?" Then Miss Piggy Blue eyes, jumps and says something: "I could easily do that if I was drunk!", I laugh my ass off and reply: "Please! You fell on your ass last week walking on the regular floor from how drunk you were!" Miss Piggy is furious! Anyhow, my buddy Carlos and his girl get in my car. He is riding shotgun, but before I get in the car I tell his girl: "You know it really upsets me that I am doing you guys a favor and you are acting like that!", she replies: "Oh I am just scared!" to which I say: "Look I have a bright future ahead of me, I'm not anywhere near stupid enough to waste it by getting a DUI for driving drunk".

Then my buddy Carlos calls his roommate and the two other girls and the all get in the car, in the back. However brunette is drunk and acting like a little child. At the same time miss piggy wants to walk home, to they lower the windows and keep pleading with her to get in the car. I say: "Let her walk, walking is healthy!" My buddy Carlos then gets off the car at the request of his girl to White knight and walk Miss bitch Piggy home. Now I'm just really losing it, because I was only doing this for him. There are cops everywhere, and brunette is acting like I little idiot. I tell her to seat her ass back down! She says: "Why are you so mean to me!" In a child like voice. To which I reply in a calm yet firm manner: "Because if you don't seat down, there are cops everywhere and I'm not down for getting pulled over right now". I ask the guy to come up front so that he can give me directions. Then later I find out that one of the streets is blocked so I have to go the other way. Long story short, the guy doesn't come up front, the girls are acting up, I tell them to get off my car, she(Brunette) almost fucking puked on my car. They all leave and don't even close the back door. Guy has to do it for them. They say: "thank you" though! Even brunette!

I go home, and end the night.

Lessons learned

  • HB8+ girls in colleges town are surrounded by guys, they have back up to back ups. They get hit on 5 times plus on average a night.

  • Girls can't stand not being the center of attention. Thus when they see a guy who is having fun, yet not validating them, or giving the attention to them, it doesn't matter if they have 5 guys or 500 guys giving them validation, they have to engage the one guy who isn't giving it to them.

  • The level of entitlement that some of these girls have is astronomical. Look at freaking Miss Piggy, she is an HB7 at best, HB4 at worst, her personality ain't worth a penny. Heck even brunette that appeared fun last weekend, was a complete disaster yesterday. They both regress to little pissed off children when told the truth to their face, and should be treated appropriately.