When (notice I said when, not if) she cheats, you are going to feel deep betrayal and feelings of inadequacy. “Why wasn’t I enough for her”. Your confidence is going to take a massive hit, I don’t care who you are, you’re lying if you say it didn’t. In these times it’s imperative to remind yourself that it’s NOT that you weren’t enough for her, it’s that NOBODY is enough for her. That is hypergamy in action. It’s fine to hate her. Even forever if you want. But if you are going to go that route you must channel all that anger into positive things. Harness it to push past gym plateaus and monetary goals.
Never ever stay friends with exes or get back together with exes. Nothing good will come from it. Remind yourself that you had her when she was younger and hotter, why would you want her now that she’s older and uglier? You’re going to be paying the same price or maybe even a higher price for a product that is now inferior. You wouldn’t pay 1000$ for a ps3 when you used to own one that only cost you 400$. Besides, now there’s a PS4 available for 400$. Delete your ex and Go buy the ps4. Both literally and figuratively.
Any girl that is attractive enough to be worth dating is going to be able to easily monkeybranch. And she will do it eventually. This is similar advice to the cheating. There is always going to be someone “better” than you out there. Often she will swing to someone who isn’t even better, just different. The longer you’re with her the less attractive you become, there’s nothing you can do about this. The things she first liked about you, will become the things she doesn’t like about you. She will take you for granted. She will get bored. Once this happens, many of her options are going to seem superior to you, when in reality they most likely aren’t. Relationships are an unwinnable game, so when you take a “loss” so to speak, realize that was always going to be the outcome nomatter what you did. She’s not yours, it’s just your turn. My advice to mgtows who still want to date is simple, never emotionally invest, stay for the honeymoon period, and at the first sign of trouble, hit the eject button.
The girl you loved will move on instantly and you will feel pain for years, maybe forever. We are wired different than them. Her survival requires her to have a man, it’s life or death according to her lizardbrain, so she cannot be alone. When you’re sitting there wondering how she could just move on so fast and so easily after all you’ve been through together, remember again that it has nothing to do with you, it’s just how she’s wired. And remind yourself how lucky you are to not be wired that way, because it would be an absolutely miserable existence if you couldn’t be alone and your very survival was reliant on someone else. What a pathetic and weak way to live. Whatever sadness and sorrow you feel for losing someone you loved, is a beautiful thing. It’s what makes you a huMAN. Emphasis on man. Just accept the feelings, don’t fight them. You’ll never feel that pain again since you now understand women, but having gone through it makes you stronger. Even though the person you loved didn’t exist, and it was just a fantasy, that doesn’t mean the feelings weren’t real.
After discovering mgtow you’re gona feel a lot of anger and probably also depression. Stardusk calls it “the void”. We all go there, some of us just dip a toe into the void, and others dive in head first and never find their way out. Don’t be one of those. Chill in the void for a bit if you must, cause all these red pills are depressing, but they don’t have to be. Personally I think it feels so good to be awake. We are the lucky ones. We will never again suffer at the hands of the predatory female. We see the world for what it is, a totalitarian gynocracy that is intent on enslaving us at all costs. But our chains are broken. We are free.
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