One of the side effects of being a MGTOW is that you have so much money that women start to take notice and everyone starts to get nosy.
For example, when people know that you are single and live a minimalist lifestyle, many people keep asking about how much you've saved and why you're not following the manslave template, that is, get married, get a mortgage, have children, and become a wage slave.
When I was in my early twenties I learned the hard way that you should not advertise your wealth. I was young and gullible, and I was dating girls, and all the wining and dining and paying for holidays was really expensive. I even lent money to my family and didn't get paid back. That was how stupid I was.
When I was broke, I suddenly realised the truth, which is that individualism is real and all forms of collectivism is a scam designed to make you a willing slave.
The sanctity of family is a form of collectivism, and collectivism is a tenet of communism. Communism or collectivism states that you are not important. What matters is the collective or the community. What matters is the country, the family, the woman, etc. You don't matter. What matters is everyone but yourself.
Having learned an expensive lesson, I save up money again but this time kept it secret. I pretended to be poor. I found that my family stopped bugging me and stopped trying to keep in touch with me. Women stayed away from me.
There were many moments when I felt an itching to brag about money, but I kept strong and pretended to be poor.
Do any of you do this? Are there any techniques you use?
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Patched things, "fixed" things, relatively OLD things that have been refurbed (or even "salvaged")... these go a LONG way towards duping people into thinking that you're poor.
OR... even if not that you're actually "poor" -- that you are a "tight wad" (and/or "cheap bastard") -- same difference really...
Because in EITHER case, they know better than to beg anything off of you or try to get you to pay for anything for them, buy them crap, etc.
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And here I always thought you took the cake.
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Never, ever "LEND" money to friends or family.
Certainly never have ANY expectation (on YOUR part) that it will be paid back... because (unless its some literally "trivial" amount, or else there is some WRITTEN and legally enforceable "loan" paper-document to it) it won't be paid back, period. Ever.
Instead... if and when you DO decide to "lend" money to friends (and it's FINE if they think it's a "loan" in fact it's probably BEST that they DO think that, even sincerely believe it*)... well count it the same was as if you had lit the money on fire, or thrown it down a toilet.
Save yourself ALL of the "grief" over ever trying to be repaid.
Instead -- by KNOWING it won't be -- well, it will make all of the countless dozens of "excuses" they will come up with (often even when you DON'T press them) for WHY they haven't repaid you -- well, they'll be a source of HUMOR to you, rather than frustration or anger.
* Not that it will really matter in terms of them ever repaying it...
But that's not the point -- what them believing it is a "loan" CAN do is that it CAN help reduce the likelihood of them ever asking for MORE. (You're easy -- and fully justified -- response doesn't even have to be spoken: "You never repaid me ANYTHING on what I loaned you last time... so why would I lend you more?")
Whereas if they KNOW it was a "gift" and NOT a "loan" -- well then the expectation of (even feeling of entitlement to) some further, later "gifts" will be unrestrained -- they'll be SHAMELESS in begging (even trying to GUILT trip YOU if you don't fork it over on demand).
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