It has been through some considerable thought, far too much experience, and having my life destroyed every few years that I have come to the realization that I am the valuable commodity, and I can choose whom to share my resources or not.
For the last two and a half decades I have been trying to treat women as my equal, and could never figure out why the hell they would cheat and leave. Well no shit. The women who are attracted to me want a leader, because they like the safety and security I provide, and I am trustworthy as well as reliable without being abusive. Its not that they want me to run their lives and tell them what to wear (though some do) they want a leader, like their dad was when hey were little.
They dont want an equal, they want someone to make decisions for them and do the hard work of life for them. They dont want to work, they want to enjoy the fruits of my labor, the produce of the sacrifices I have made to get where I am. They want to be taken care of and given everything and assume some sex is enough repayment.
I have known this for a long time, but listened to the bullshit put out there by so many people. Most women have blatantly tried to use me, but the second one I was stupid enough to marry, well she was cunning about it, but not because she was 'planning' it. She is too inexperienced to figure that kind of shit out, she just sort of lucked into it. Now I am just following my basic drives and finding that women like that far more than how the military (sexual harassment BS) and society in general tried to make me be.
She left an alpha with a passive income and rather substantial resources, not the least of which is health care and death benefits for her, for a guy 7 years her junior who isnt even a beta, cant keep a job, has only two people in the entire world who like him (my wife and one of her female coworkers) everyone else cant stand him, and he has such a low self esteem and self image he over compensates by being arrogant and irritating. He doesnt know jack shit about fuck, and blows smoke up your ass and bullshits you when he doesnt know. She doesnt know shit either, so she thinks he is wonderful.
So to women like that, if you want a loser that you can control but end up supporting, go have at it. You deserve each other. I have what people need to survive because I earned it. She can no longer enjoy it because she is stupid and easily manipulated by a beta using PUA tactics.