When was the last time you "fell in love" with a woman? How did it end?

imsorted · 2017-07-20T19:10:36+00:00

It's such a shitty feeling. I had it once. Obsessed with this one girl I slept with, and obviously, because she could tell I was head over heels for her, she dropped me like a lead balloon and blatantly got off with lads in front of me. I was mega beta at the time, it makes me cringe thinking about it.. but it felt like it was out of my control. Couldn't stop thinking about her, put all my hobbies on hold, couldn't think straight. Never, ever want to feel like that again because I've come to accept that 2 people will never both feel that same feeling at the same time. That happening was one of the 3 experiences that sent me to redpill/MGTOW TLDR Love is always one sided

BudRock56 · 2017-07-20T17:37:35+00:00

Marriage --------> Divorce

Pk_s_to_the_yizzle · 2017-07-20T19:39:34+00:00

Ok let me see if you can help me choose which one it was? I'm not really sure /s

When I was 18 the girl I was seeing Lied about being preganant with my twins. When she was pregnant by a third party, AND I BOLTED. SO she had sex in the bathroom with my best friend to piss me off, AND THEN LATER I GOT BACK WITH HER (for the kids, incase they WERE mine, BUT THAT ENDED UP never being born) and SHE SAID MY FRIEND RAPED HER. Incidentally, this is the SAME girl who's MOM pulled a revolver on me and poked it into my stomach at point blank range on the FIRST NIGHT I MET HER (ah, growing up in the hood).
When I was 20, I was so out of friends I hung out with my ENEMIES. Well MY BEST ENEMY'S GIRLFRIEND took a liking to me, (THE SAME ENEMY who took a GIRL from me when we were 13 and GOT HEAD from the girl above) and she sucked my dick, on a crowded hot day. In prospect park brooklyn. HONOR (lol, remember honor yall - and that's some bullshit honor btw) Demanded I tell him and try to make her mine. Nope.
How about when I was in college? I fancied a girl that turned out to be the DORM ROOM SKANK. We never banged, cause "i never sarged her." One day I sarged her, and I was bangapalooza, but I had a (gray area) girlfriend at the time. Only to find out she wasn't the town bicycle. SHE WAS THE METH BICYCLE. AND GANGBANGS OF 4 OR MORE WERE HER FORTE.
How about right after college, when I was living with the gray area girlfriend and we moved to a big city from the college town, and she proceeded to GET RID OF ALL MY FRIENDS AND ISOLATE THE SHIT OUT OF ME AND ride my ass FOR YEARS about the above incident UNTIL I HAD 2 MASSIVE HEART ATTACKS AND went up to 380lbs.
How about When years later I dated a single mom who's kid had epileptic seizures (he hadn't grown out of by 8) and was mixed? She was dumb as a rock and spent all her money ON HER MONEY GRUBBING EXTENDED FAMILY (sisters, nieces, and nephews) and wanted me to join that Burden-Party for life. I passed. I LATER ON FOUND OUT SHE WAS A SWINGER AND MET HER AT A HOUSE PARTY THAT WAS FULL OF SWINGERS. SHE LATER TOLD ME SWINGER STORIES.
How about the single mom after that? Who I loved her daughter and the "family life" more than I loved the frigid, stank-poo'd mom? That was a head crusher. But my head became UNCRUSHED after just 3 run-ins with "dear old DAD". The FACT THAT I WAS A "PLACEHOLDER" was obvious as EVERYONE dropped what they were doing to hang with dear old dad. HAVING TO BE AND ADULT PLAYMATE TO A CHILD AND THEN AN ADULT PARTNER TO AN ADULT IN ONE DAY JUST SUCKS. It MIGHT NOT SUCK IF THATS YOUR FAMILY. BUT IT SUCKS CUM COVERED BBC IF YOUR DATING! She STILL wants to be friends to this day and probably wonders why I wont answer the phone or her texts. Plus her daughter turned 15, GOT SUPER FLY, and started fucking EVERYTHING. Legal age here is 16, had to run for it.
How ABOUT THE ONE THAT MADE ME HOMELESS? YEP. HOMELESS. I was living well. MGTOW BEFORE I EVEN KNEW WHAT IT WAS. Chilling. Living happily alone for the first time. MET A SINGLE CHICK OVER 30 WITH NO KIDS. That should have been red flag central. Dated for a year, attented my childhood friend's marriage together back home, -even MOVED IN TOGETHER (yep I figure I give that shit THIS LAST CHANCE, because If I didnt' do it now, I would never live with a female AGAIN). Moved in in November, MOVED OUT IN JANUARY. Actually, when I was going to moved out. SHE CALLED THE NEW PLACE I WAS MOVING (a Girl, a friend or so I thought then) and THREATENED HER UNTIL SHE SAID "you cant move in with me, I dont want that crazy bitch around here". And BAM! Homeless! ANGRY TOO! So when I pulled up at the house to get my shit. SHE came out trying to START A FIGHT, BUT I DIDNT BITE. Good thing I didn't , cause HER WHOLE FAMILY WAS IN THERE. She had been SNOOPING MY PHONE, the family was waiting to beat my ass, AND THE COPS ARRIVED IN FORCE, Said "They were called on a domestic violence call". I had called my buddy earlier, sensing the trap. When the cops pulled up, me and my buddy both had opposite ends of the same couch in our hands. Cop said it was the most peaceful domestic violence he'd even been on. I said "thank you, you're not protecting them, you're protecting ME!" and got my shit. SHE EVEN TRIED TO MAKE AMMENDS AS I WAS LOADING THE VAN. I told the cops, "please keep her away from me." And they DID!
How about the ex-party girl black girl with no booty and no tits AND ALL EGO. Not only was she gifted with a "a thick asian male body". But like all black women she thought she was the shit and said she "Did shit" that SHE COULD NEVER PROVE. Now THIS ONE I NEVER FELL IN LOVE WITH, BUT I LIKED THAT I SAW ALL HER SHIT COMING FROM A MILE AWAY AND NEVER FELL FOR HER TRICKS . Oh yeah. The TRICK I fell for that I didn't see coming? She fake pregnancy scared, AND She "disappeared" for 2 days after a "car accident" with her friend that HAS NO EVIDENCE OR PICTURES. I bounced on her ass after that. THEN SHE TRIED TO BOOMERANG THIS YEAR, and I asked her "remember that car accident/dissappearance?" AND SHE SAID "What car accident/dissappearance I never did that?" AND I said, "let's not and say we did" I HUNG UP.
How about that chick from Seattle? The one with no kids, and wasn't 30, and fucked up? LIVED IN A TRAILER PARK, HAD A GHOUL FOR A MOTHER AND A DOG THAT SHIT EVERWHERE AND WAS NOT TRAINED. Oh and the kicker. HAD NO HIGH SCHOOL DIPLOMA, but had previously worked for microsoft as a DRIVER, and HAD NO DESIGNS TO FINISH SCHOOL OR GET A REAL JOB. She looked REAL CONFUSED, when after finding this shit out while chilling in my house, I THREW HER THE FUCK OUT WITH MOST HASTE .
How about the Married Lady, WHO GOT PERMISSION FROM HER HUSBAND. Because they were "polyamorous". I SWEAR. If. You. Ever. Hear THOSE WORDS come out of anybody's mouth, RUN!. Just break into a Trot Right then, AND COME BACK AND GET YOUR CAR LATER. WHEN AN ANGRY HUSBAND CALLS YOU TO COMPLAIN - That he is MAD AT YOU because YOU ARE NOT FUCKING HIS WIFE ANYMORE. You KNOW you just LANDED ON THE FUCKING MOON! That shit turned stalker status as I HAD TO BEAT MY DICK INTO SUBMISSION - So I could SEND THIS HO BACK HOME TO HER FAMILY AND DO THE RIGHT THING. AFTER my dick was beaten into LINE, IT TOOK TWO YEARS TO SHAKE THE BITCH! I FINALLY HAD TO GO GHOST!

Now, If you ask "HOW IN THE FUCK COULD YOU GET YOURSELF IN THESE SITUATIONS?"

I have 2 answers for you:

My Dick.
It's Not like They HELD UP A SIGN THAT SAID "BAD DECISION HERE-GUARANTEED TO FUCK YO LIFE UP, AND NOT BE WORTH A SHIT IN THE PROCESS.I'M CRAZY, AND NOBODY EVER TAUGHT ME RIGHT FROM WRONG, NOR EVER DISCIPLINED ME FOR SHIT" No. They HID THAT SHIT until the TIME WAS RIGHT, OR I WENT COLUMBO SEARCHING.

But thanks to MGTOW - I know now they all have that sign.

sadbasturd99 · 2017-07-20T17:39:16+00:00

No, I didn't have a moment. I had pretty good relationships compared to a lot of others here. Mostly online dating and being single at 42 has opened my eyes a little more to how women are, and helped me to decide to MGTOW. But I was pretty red pilled about it at around 18 19. I had a huge group of male friends and saw them go through hundreds of women. Got a very good look at how women were. They were all Chads so they knew better than to trust any woman. And weren't shy about telling me what women are like.

Luckily I had these friends and experiences or my incredible thirst and lack of knowledge would have destroyed me.

lonewolf-chicago · 2017-07-20T18:01:56+00:00

My old blue pill self would fall in love after a month or two. Now, fall in pussy and leave the love stuff for myself.

2017-07-20T17:57:18+00:00

I had to remind myself what tom leykis said: "if she doesent put out by the third date, then she is a waste of time and money and you should drop her because there is no chemistry there."

To be fair what I perceived as love at the time was nothing more than me looking for female companionship.

"Falling in love" is a cheesy way of saying I want to fuck you anyway. For women it is basically I found someone who is willing to give me time and money while taking my emotional mess.

aanarchist · 2017-07-20T18:37:04+00:00

she tried to turn me into an orbiter after dating for a while and after explaining to her what she was doing and why it was wrong, just in case there was a single functioning brain cell, a single ounce of consciousness. she stayed the course so i left. she's still single but with a higher n count, entering her early 30s with little to show for it including no career she's basically a secretary for some low level group.

magenn · 2017-07-20T21:59:42+00:00

A few months back:I started realizing that I meant nothing to her, she just didn't value me, I was so beneath her attention and she didn't respect me even a bit, I was blue-pilled as fuck,so much so that when she said she hated me I replied with an "I love you". The disrespect was the last straw.

The silver-lining was that I have come to question the pre-conceived notions ingrained into my attitude and I am trying to improve, I am trying to understand the nature of our reality and be practical rather than believe some bullshit shown or told to us.

Natsume25 · 2017-07-20T18:07:51+00:00

Do any of you guys miss the whole falling in love thing?

BroJack22 · 2017-07-20T20:12:42+00:00

I tried to "rescue" her from dancing (I know I know), she quit for me for a while. That's when the fights started, the drama increased. She was only happy when she was stripping and when she went back it destroyed me at the time, that was one of my major red pill moments. Sadly some people really are damaged goods.

eltonl · 2017-07-21T05:48:42+00:00

Title	When was the last time you "fell in love" with a woman? How did it end?
Author	Natsume25
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Date	July 20, 2017 5:31 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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