identifying if girl want to meet, or here for validation

bea5tly · 2016-04-10T13:08:37+00:00

You lost this one. Best bet is to delete her number and move on. You are coming across to needy and desperate. In the future don't ask TELL.

A common sales tactic works great on kids/girls/etc

If they tell you they are free two days or not.

Make a offer of say Tuesday at 4pm or Friday at 8pm making them choose a date and not giving them a no statement.

Same with a kid... if you ask if they want a burger they'll say no. If you ask if they want chicken nuggets they'll say no. If you ask if they want a burger or chicken nuggets they'll pick one...

works all the time with women too. Use it in your tool box.

MattyAnon · 2016-04-10T13:23:20+00:00

If she answers, sweet, if she doesn't, then I guess next

There you go.

You're paying this distant woman too much interest because you don't have other options. Fix your other options, get yourself too busy for timewasters (which she probably is)

Also...this belongs on asktrp

Il128 · 2016-04-10T13:29:38+00:00

Start by actually reading the side bar.

Luis_McLovin · 2016-04-10T12:51:50+00:00

First of all, stop asking all these questions of her. TRP doesn't ask, TRP commands. Don't ask if she's free, do this "Tell me if you're free today" or "Tell me what you're up to today" instead of "What are you doing today?". THE DIFFERENCE IS MASSIVE.

Second, big mistake texting for two weeks. What were you thinking? Trying to build attraction over text is a no-no. Get her to meet you ASAP as soon as you have contact info. As a man YOU SHOULD HAVE THIS PLANNED OUT. You should already know what bar or whatever you'd take her to, and you'd invite her to it. Don't ask if she wants to do it, INVITE HER TO IT.

Thirdly, you've got to be the prize. Don't be the one making time for her, bending over for her, you've got to be getting her to do that for you. Texting is for the sole purpose of logistics. She's already signalled interest by interacting with you, however you just validate f this interest is simply for validation or legitimate. The only way to do that with certaintty is to get her to commit to meeting you, everything else is a fucking waste of time.

EDIT: The way to "alpha this text" is stop wasting your own god damn time texting. Your next text is this "Hey you. Meet me at CoolBarWhatever at 7:00 on Thursday. Be there or be square".

If she's interested she'll bite. If she's interested yet can't commit, she'll offer to reschedule. If none of those, SHE ISNT INTERESTED AND MOVE ON, QUIT WASTING TIME.

Title	identifying if girl want to meet, or here for validation
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Date	April 10, 2016 12:38 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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