To all who like a girl

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It's also a note to self. There is this girl i like. I kind of wanted her to like me because i like her.

But thats not the nofap way. The nofap way would say "Are you attractive? If not, work on yourself." I realized the fact that you liking someone does not mean they should like you back. You need to attract them.

Put in a more blunt way, what's in it for them? What do they get? A whiny and needy jerk off? No. They need a man who is strong, confident and independent.

So don't crave her attention in a weird, creepy and needy way. Work on yourself, have the best goods in the store and they will visit you.

Like the saying goes "If you build it, they'll come."