Monk mode

Phantom_Spark · 2018-03-19T11:47:11+00:00

Monk Mode is literally to value your life and ambitions so highly that you see no interest in sleeping with women. No sexual contact at all. This also suggests no romantic contact as well.

This is a decision about determination, choice. You can’t force yourself into this. It has to come naturally or it will fail. Men, are naturally wired for sex. This gets easier to manage to age, but ultimately it means you have to either go no fap (I don’t recommend this) or go the route of porn, toys, dolls, and fapping.

It’s a choice of clarity. Think about how much time men waste when out trying to get a woman’s attention and approval. How much time do we spend paying and entertaining them? You gain all this back ten fold.

But most importantly? You need goals, desires and ambitions. They don’t need to be huge, like running a corporation. They can be small, like writing a book, or just saving for retirement, and enjoying yourself. The question is, what will you do with this freedom? You were likely raised to focus on women. Can you function without this? It helps if you were raised to prioritize your goals and ambitions ahead of women.

But once this has become your choice? It’s EASY. Because there’s nothing to entice you otherwise. You just don’t want them and are happy doing your own thing.

So, craft your path in life.... and Go Your Own Way!

2018-03-19T13:43:30+00:00

Have been monk for almost one entire year now. Some days I feel bored, lonely or horny, but overall when I assess my life, I cannot get over how much progress I've made. It's a gentle reminder that I can do anything I put my mind to, so long as I don't pollute my social life with women (retards).

Oh and as phantomspark mentioned, it wasn't a conscious decision to become monk. Instead, I gradually tweeted my life towards monk life and one day realized what I had become.

Regarding sexual desire... I would recommend a lowfap lifestyle. Going no fap is self defeating in my opinion because you will eventually cave and then feel all guilty about it and beat yourself up. Instead, I try to be aware of how much my body is pushing me towards sex, and if I ever need it to stop I'll properly rub one out. Search: extinguishing sexual desire in r/Buddhism

Investigating what propels you towards sex can also be useful. Personally, I have intense desires to fuck what is considered off limits or forbidden. Women who are married, childhood friends, the bosses daughter, women in hijabs lol... You get the idea. Once I realized this, I was more accepting of myself of having those fantasys and they slowly because less intense.

Lastly, this may be of interest to you: https://youtu.be/FumyvVOVbaY

goober_boobz · 2018-03-19T11:49:55+00:00

Honestly if you want to start I would say stop masturbating. Yeah people say the whole nofap thing is bullshit and i'm sure 75% of it is but I notice insane benefits. Voices deepens a bit, I feel more confident especially with body language. The main thing for me is quitting porn and women pedestalization. Porn fucks with my mind that I need to go out and fuck. Not just fuck but a 10 piece. That never happens and I end up acting desperate and creepy just cause my brain needs that fix. When I stopped watching porn and reserved some of my sexual energy it's like monk mode made so much more sense.

Title	Monk mode
Author	Drayelya
Upvotes	13
Comments	9
Date	March 19, 2018 10:53 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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