I was working as licensed psychotherapist for couple of years and I still highly advice to any normal no-perv guy to start their sexual life from sex. Your basic function is have as much sex as you want. You can use 1 woman, you can use different although If your real goal is Long-Term Relationships you supposed to do 'micro-dating' experiments. So you don't date chicks and parallel but spend couple of months with different women with the goal of maximization your sexual life. But not domination. Your goal: I want sex (truthfully - sincerely) - I got sex. This ratio want sex / get sex should be as closer to 1 as possible.

At this time you supposed to get factual material about women traits and their constant manipulation. Most of the women are narcissists. Let's explain terms. There is no hypergamy.

Hypergamy doesn't exist. There is narcissism. There is no special 'female solipsism' there is just plain old narcissism always. Ok, we switch terms to more proper now I wouldn't explain everything again - now you need to go first to the sidebar or Rollo Tomassi's books and inside your mind change words 'hypergamy' to 'narcissism'. That's it. Most of the women - I really knew some quality women but their population is too small. So chances are you wouldn't get those Cinderellas. Just because of their rarity. You're not so lucky. All your life you would interact with narcissistic woman. That's not bad and good news with your help and guidance you would make a wife out of this women.

That's a great relief. You wouldn't need to bang 'plates' and split women between 'sluts' or 'plates' and Long Term Relationships. You would distinct 'curable' women and 'non-curable women'. And I suggest to threat all the women as your own wives but not whores. And if your 'wife' is narcissist then she is ill. She is sick. And she is in great-great danger. And this is your responsibility to make her alive. You may have one wife - you may have many. Fuck the state laws about marriage. Fuck the Christianity. Fuck this all.

But in order to get normal long-term relationships with one or many wives you supposed to finish preliminary steps: 1. Monk mode, reading sidebar, working on self-improvement. Taking control of your health, money, career.
2. Trying to make many short-term relationships 'micro-dating'. You can start with one-night stand type relationships but of course if you are dreaming about having a normal long-term relationships 3. Thinking and reflecting about your experience.

It will take couple of years minimum. Better 3 to 5 years. You would learn the game, you would learn everything about women manipulations you learn how painfully they bite sometimes, you would probably slip to the abyss so-called 'oneitiss' again and again.

Again, let's make the terms clear 'oneitiss' is just the synonym for romantic love. That's it. Stop watching fucking romantic comedies. That's not life. Real love is about comradeship, self-growing and helping your spouse to grow, nurturing kids together, making decisions about your life, making big investments like mortgage or car together, helping each other with health issues, helping each other with self-destructing addictions and etc.

Please, re-read previous paragraph. If your definition of love differs from my approximate definition of love, if nothing clicks there - I wouldn't be able to help you. This is a recipe exactly for this type of love.

But suppose you are already there. You need to realize #1 Relationships rule. The Most Important Relationships Rule in The Universe: WOMAN ARE NATURALLY PRONE TO NARCISSTIC SPECTRUM OF DISORDERS.

They constantly slip to the narcissistic abyss. Some of them are relatively stable. Some of them not. That's when they start to fight with you and manipulate you. That's when they try to dominate you and make a pussy out of you. That's when they start to whine and cry about their 'love'. Have you ever heard Prodigy's song 'Their Law'? Yes, that's right. FUCK THEM AND THEIR LOVE.

What you need to know there that's there is three-step ladder here. NARCISSISM - HYSTERICAL PERSONALITY DISORDER - PSYCHOPATHY. That's where you need to stop. And to stop and think. You need to read numerous books about narcissistic spectrum of disorders. You need to be able to carefully diagnose this kind of problems there. You need to watch a lot of films like 'Gone girl' (Psychopathy). There you spend at least a year. Thinking about all the women that you met at your preliminary step. All the women who you sincerely loved and who throw you out like garbage. All the women that have played with you, lied to you, manipulated you, used you to do their work for them and etc. and etc. The list is never ending. You do your homework.

And then you distinct your women: 1. She got NARCISSISM - then you going to try cure her herself 2. She got HYSTERICAL PERSONALITY DISORDER - then you at least temporarily put relationships on hold and try to help her with qualified psychotherapist. Until she will be released from psychotherapy - you are not having real relationships, you are not having sex. Your wife, your own spouse is sick. Imagine that if she got hysterical personality disorder then she got cancer. You need to help doctors cure her from cancer. If doctor is not advicing you to have sex - you are not having sex. You don't treat her like wife. You treat her like seriously mentally sick person. Who needs help from society. 3. She got PSYCHOPATHY - there everything is different. You need to at least try and carefully check all the data that lead to this direction and then show it to qualified psychotherapist or psychiatrist. Then you file for divorce, get a restriction order, remove this person out of your life completely. This is predator. Fuck the money, fuck the half of your property. The stress alone would kill her. If you have real spirit you may try to help society and put her under care and watch of professional psychotherapists or psychiatrists.

What if she's got nothing? Chances are 1 to 10 billions. So what you need in this case: 1. Get your head out of your ass. 2. Re-read books about narcissism, maybe buy new books. 3. Re-diagnose.

Most of the women, all the women that you would probably met in your life are narcissists. They hypergamous, right? You remember this? So hypergamy = narcissism. So they are sick. They need your help and support.

So what is the most important characreristic of the narcissist? Inflated ego. What are the consequences? Major reducement in executive function.

What is the executive function? Ability to do shit. Ability to solve your problems. Ability to do stuff. Ability to work. BY YOURSELF.

Think for a minute here. What do they all want? They want somebody to provide for them, they somebody to create 'tingles', they always want somebody to do something for them. That's right because their executive function is impaired. They are not able to do their shit. They lose ability to solve their problems. And your problems too because that's what love is about - about helping each other and also about many other beautiful things. But there is no love in this world. Because statistically speaking every woman is a narcissist. Re-read this statement. THERE IS NO LOVE IN THIS WORLD.

What you need to do? You need to make your dreams come true. You need to create love in this world all by yourself. And the solution is already here. EXECUTIVE FUNCTION.

You solve at least some of your problems -> You have executive function -> You are able to love. And Vice Versa: You have an inflated ego -> You are not able to love -> You have impaired executive function -> You have negative Emotional IQ -> You're stuck in negative loop.

I need to step back and provide you couple of advices about proper diagnostics: You need to learn criminal psychology too. I suggest 'Anatomy of Motive' book and 'Criminal profiling an introduction to behavioral evidence analysis'. You need watch many films about serial killers. You need to watch documentary films about serial killers. That's how you learn about all shades of narcissistic - psychopathy spectrum of disorder. It happens in males too. Yes. Generally there much more psychopaths among mens, but most of them just beta males. And there is pretty big incidence of psychopathy among women but they generally not so dangerous (they're not killing so many people). But most of the crimes are happen in this area.

Another Term. DARK TRIAD CHICK. DARK TRIAD CHICK EQUALS NARCISSISTIC SPECTRUM OF DISORDER. That's it. The most dangerous DARK TRIAD chicks ARE PSYCHOPATHS.

But you still want love, kids, marriage and all those beautiful things, right? Ok, then know you really understand how important to know everything about narcissism.

I forgot about cure from inflated ego and narcissism. It's really easy. You become her boss and you dominate her. You don't go down to her manipulations. You are not cherishing her. You act like HER BOSS. And HER TEACHER. And you solve problem after problem from any area next to her. You regenerate her EXECUTIVE FUNCTION. Then you carefully monitoring her state. If she's getting better - less bossiness, less dictatorship. If she is getting worse - more bossiness, if she is going to hysterical direction - you go to the psychotherapist or psychiatrist. If she is becoming a psychopaths - you pack your things and try to get the fuck out of here.

A little help. Narcissists are hiding their emotions. They suppress them in order to dominate you. Again, re-read this statement. They are hiding their true feelings. So when executive function is going back she starts to cry. And that's a good thing. Because girls naturally cry a lot. That's normal behavior. But you also need to distinct real human tears from acting. They learn how to cry in front of man in order to extract pity out of them.

So when she was a narcissist and she starts to regrow her executive function she cries a lot. Don't feel guilty, don't be sad, if you thing you pushed too hard then next time push less hard. You're boss. You don't excuse. You are boss. It's ok for her to cry. She starts to feel again. She starts to revive.

And then you got your Cinderella. For couple of weeks, maybe months, maybe years. And then she's getting sick again. And again. And again. And you're her doctor forever. Why? Because you wanted love. That's the price of love in modern world.