Are louder/ bitchier girls considered more attractive than reserved girls?

big_foam_shocker · 2016-05-01T02:08:10+00:00

I find the exact opposite. The quiet "on the side" type chicks are much more attractive to my taste, and almost without exception are smarter and cooler to hang out with.

[deleted] · 2016-05-01T02:28:18+00:00

Nope. I'll take the quiet one. Nothing is more unattractive than a woman who thinks she has a bigger dick than me.

casemodsalt · 2016-05-01T02:26:00+00:00

The outgoing and hot are terrible, conceited cunts.

You want shy and reserved.

Bigjohnthug · 2016-05-01T03:42:41+00:00

lets say there are two girls and both look exactly like Mila Kunis; pretty face and great body.

OK first of all Mila Kunis is 32 and looks 32. If you've ever had sex with anyone that age, hell usually 25 plus now no one takes care of their body, you know it's not worth it. Oh yeah sure there is the odd 32 year old who looks 17 but for the most part their skin has that give to it, like their life is slowly dissipating into the scenery.

Anyway, less confident guys who will bend their backs to get laid prefer the louder chick. She's outgoing and grabs their attention. She will "like" them so long as they agree with her opinion. She will give them compliments to string them along, making them think they're getting closer to the prize.

When you have fucked a lot of girls the bitchy insecure princess type loses appeal very fast. I think I managed five of them before I couldn't deal with it. Now I can't even pull them for a hate-fuck, despite the fact they're so easy, because I just know the sex will be God awful.

TheSelfGoverned · 2016-05-01T02:28:39+00:00

You may not have as much success in a party or bar environment (obviously), but men will still find you attractive as long as you can have entertaining one on one conversation. In this situation, try and approach someone you are attracted to one-on-one, and start up a conversation. He will forget about the louder woman fairly quickly, assuming he is attracted to you and you are moderately charming.

Polaris382 · 2016-05-01T02:02:16+00:00

No, they are obviously going to get more attention that way though.

There is a middle ground. A woman who has some "balls" (i.e. can be assertive, isnt extremely timid, has a backbone, etc.) is FAR more desirable than some timid little shy doormat. I use to be more into that shy timid type, but then got turned off by them after being in a serious LTR with one who had pretty much ZERO self reliance. That is a huge turnoff.

Entropy-7 · 2016-05-01T05:27:05+00:00

I think the unspoken assumption is that the loud chick is more DTF than the wall flower.

TheGatherHunter · 2016-05-01T05:43:21+00:00

I've heard the claim that loud girls get all the attention from guys quite frequently, so I've had a lot of time to observe why they think this. I much prefer the quiet one personally.

We live in a society where your average man is really nervous to approach. A loud woman will often make the first move and give them an opening. Guys will also assume she's easy. So at the end of the day it's less risk and higher reward if they give attention to the loud chick.

I really doubt she'll fare much better if she's looking for a LTR. I know I'd avoid her in that case. So if your issue is that you're quiet and you're not getting attention, then it may well behoove you to approach the guys you're interested in and say hi. You might be surprised at how well received you are.

cacho_ · 2016-05-01T02:34:42+00:00

It's just basic human analysis, people are more attracted (regardless of of gender) to other people that are outgoing and social.

THE_StrongBoy · 2016-05-01T03:59:35+00:00

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Ali_s1987 · 2016-05-01T05:47:25+00:00

Should be in Asktrp......

"Is this because guys assume that she gets more attention and they want the girl everyone wants?" Never assume this. In reality guys who want quick sex gravitate towards these girls because they are more confident and will likely put out sooner then the shy quiet girl. Want a one night stand? Act loud and bitchy........want a LTR etc? act reserved.

Unrelated to the question...its proven that the likelihood of a girl being raped is less to do with clothes and more to do with her being reserved. Most serial killers and rapists target reserved girls because they assume her to be less likely to fight back.

getRedPill · 2016-05-01T04:23:41+00:00

Not at all. Unless by "quiet" or smart you define a person hard to deal with. Some girls thinks being bitch to other persons makes them somehow intellectual.

ECTD · 2016-05-01T13:48:32+00:00

Which one is more feminine? There's your answer. This subs all about the timid, reserved (i.e. traditionally feminine) women.

IDK if this is other guy's experiences but my girl was extremely timid with me to begin, shy, etc., but now she's more talkative (not in a bad way though).

Theophagist · 2016-05-01T19:37:57+00:00

Jesus god is there some way to get these people to take their banal "get into the mind of a guy" questions to ASKTRP?

RPSnuggles · 2016-05-01T04:32:29+00:00

http://www.amazon.com/Why-Men-Love-Bitches-Relationship/dp/1580627560

TRPApprentice · 2016-05-01T07:31:11+00:00

Get outta here with your woman mindfuckery

play_time_is_over · 2016-05-01T03:13:28+00:00

What you find atttactive are considered attractive girls.

Foctopus · 2016-05-01T03:31:49+00:00

There's a difference between bubbly and loud. Both get more attention than shy girls because, duh talking more and louder gets more attention, which gets more guys. But smart guys ideally want bubbly girls, or shy ones even if they can be a little more work to talk to.

gvivalover · 2016-05-01T04:38:23+00:00

If she gets 4x the attention the relationship will have 4x the reasons to end when she meets more men.

nooooou · 2016-05-01T07:20:08+00:00

Outgoing one is easier to read and so will inspire more confidence in the inconfident, if they are making any progress she'll make it clear. If it's a no go zone she'll make it clear. Quiet one will too but possibly at levels to which the listener is deaf.

M1s4n7hr0p3 · 2016-05-01T02:00:56+00:00

Because they're fucking boring.

Title	Are louder/ bitchier girls considered more attractive than reserved girls?
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Date	May 1, 2016 1:47 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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