You got it all wrong, if you want to do well with women, you have to be honest with yourself about it and adjust your lifestyle accordingly. Here is why.

Anti_PUA · 2016-05-01T06:20:02+00:00

I think men who are frustrated in life would do better than to take advice from some bluepill PUA 2.0 "TRPer" that can't meaningfully tell the difference between "conducive" and "conductive". Building your entire life around chasing loose skanks is the height of gynocentric pussy worship and is a true manifestation of BP thought.

All of the great men of the past that have shaped this world and gave us most of the technologies and advances we see today were men who focused on their intellectual pursuits and passions almost entirely. They had wives, sure, but not the vibrant and elusive sex life that is pushed on here. They never kissed that "10" nor were there wives anything to write home about, yet most were happy with their lots in life.

That is what being a man of value entails. Pussy is suppose to be a nice complement to your life, not a damn necessity. The funny thing is there is an interesting yet disconcerting dissonance you TRP theorists fail to address: Assuming the 80/20 rule is correct (which it is), then wouldn't that necessarily entail that the overwhelming majority of men will be priced out of the SMP regardless of self-improvement and never get to experience any of the things you are stating? Ergo, it follows that a large number of men need to focus on internal validation and contentment with their lives because they certainly won't be getting from women.

Docbear64 · 2016-05-01T08:45:47+00:00

I disagree with the entire lens with which you posted this. Am i attracted to women ? Absolutely. Would i like to bring more attractive women into my life? Most definitely . Will i gear my hobbies and activities towards womens interest to get them? No that sounds like i am living for women, that sounds like i am ignoring my personal desires for the sake of women, that sounds very blue pill to me if i am doing something to seek the approval of women.

Even taking DJ's as your example of an "ideal profession" women don't admire the craft of the DJ nor are they attracted to the hard work of it they like the status of it , they like knowing that if he is good he is one of the most important people in the room at the club . You're almost arguing the merit of the activities we choose when in reality women don't care about the craft they care about the results and the drive of the men pursuing things. At a chess convention why wouldn't the best chess player fuck the ( i'm sure modest ) selection that would be open to appreciating his skills? Even better if the woman doesn't care about your interest, fantastic it's none of her concern because it makes YOU happy and unless she asks about it then it doesn't need to be a subject of conversation aside from letting her know when you'll be engaging in it.

What a better argument i think you could have made is that if you want to find 10's then you go to places 10's are common. Clubs? Yes . Exciting events where they can be seen? Yes! But that's a far far cry from saying that you have to put the desires and visions of women on your life to see success. That sounds very needy / desperate to me .

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TRPApprentice · 2016-05-01T11:07:00+00:00

I'd prefer it if you didn't make sweeping generalizations.

Red_Shirt_Blue_Pants · 2016-05-01T11:50:25+00:00

Gonna go out on a limb here and say you have no game. At all. Work on your internal game a bit more. A guy with a 100k salary, regardless of his profession, will have success if he has game and displays value. Getting laid is easy: get your life in order, develop goals, and work towards them. Nothing else gives real confidence like living the passion you've had all your life.

Askinredd · 2016-05-01T04:31:05+00:00

I wonder what happened to this sub to where guys can't even handle the truth about women, sex, and game anymore. All OP said was that your nerdy hobbies and loner lifestyle won't get you hot girls, what's the matter? Did he hurt your feelings? The truth is that this is a sexual strategy sub. Guys come on here to get laid, learn how to get girls, improve their lives in that regard, and in turn help others. All of this nonsense about "life purpose", you aren't going to find that on a sub dedicated to helping men get laid in today's world and avoid some issues that may come along the way.

Sometimes I wonder if the blue pill sends shills in order to downvote quality content on here. The red pill these days feels like a meeting of bitter prudes angry at women for rejecting them so they turn to sour grapes and talk about how hot girls are evil, sex is overrated, and women are so awful.

"WHAT? You're telling me they would rather sleep with the football player than a halo player like me? ALL HOT GIRLS HAVE LOW STANDARDS!!! ARRRGH! Going my own way since it is so alpha!"

It reflects poorly on this entire sub as other legitimate resources that help men get better with women are now looking down on this place as nothing but a bunch of bitter virgins. After seeing how it has been like lately, can't blame em.

Sure everyone, downvote OP because the truth fucking sucks. Keep convincing yourself that arguing on the internet, writing blogs, and playing videogames will help you get hot girls. Keep imagining the life where you work 80 hrs a week, make six figures, and yet still fuck models everyday. Go on, escape reality, truth hurts you sore fucks.

Title	You got it all wrong, if you want to do well with women, you have to be honest with yourself about it and adjust your lifestyle accordingly. Here is why.
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Date	May 1, 2016 4:19 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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