I was out in town with my date and her friend. My date and I were clearly a thing. Her friend was clearly feeling awkward. A guy came and introduced himself to take her away, noticing she was in a weird spot. My date's friend left to join. Great frame.

He was an attractive guy, not a natural at pickup but he had confidence. However I noticed immediately he was pulling some of the classic 101 seduction moves. That's ok, everyone has to work with what they've got right?

Come the end of the night, me and my date caught up with her. They had already kissed. But something was off. He pulled the "hug good-bye? oh what you're going for the kiss? damn you want this so bad huh girl" card, while going in for the kiss himself, confident in knowing he was attractive. But...

Creepy. Me and my date discussed the night with her and these are some things we concluded (with my own input obviously):

  • He was way too forceful when he kissed her earlier, pulling her into him. She found it overpowering. This was odd since I found her aggressive for my tastes. Until this point, I read her as liking him. So did my date. But the kiss killed the spark. Guys, we tease them. We want them to want it. We're not frat bros. Practice being good at kissing without tongue for your first kiss. If you can do that, any girl will kiss you again.

  • You'll gain a lot of respect if you play it cool when she doesn't go home with you. Me and my date lost all respect for him watching him try the "hug kiss" move. If this was a more public environment, so would everyone else. Just move on. Don't make a big deal out of it.

  • Be honest. With yourself and her. We could sense this guy was hiding insecurities from a mile away when he made this move. He was attractive but making himself feel better. Stop being a bitch. You can handle it when a girl doesn't want you. You're a man not a rapist.

I'm not a yogi. I can't put it into words proper, but this is the shit that I learned years ago in the old TRP style. Girls respect someone who respects themself.