Why PUA is complete bullshit - story of a guy asking out hundreds of girls

FleshPanda · 2017-06-05T08:04:30+00:00

Pua only really works if you are a natural Chad or demi Chad.

dayone_27 · 2017-06-05T12:48:42+00:00

After years of approaching girls I've worked out the odds of each approach outcome as follows. Needless to say I don't bother anymore

40% "Sorry I have a boyfriend/am married, go away now please"
20% Receive silence and fearful, awkward looks designed to make you feel bad for approaching random strangers.
10% Get outright laughed at
10% Polite conversation with a polite rejection
10% Attract the attention of white knights and AMOGs. Get cockblocked and possibly in a fight.
9.5% Get a number that will go nowhere
0.5% Begin an interaction that leads to sex

sir_wankalot_here · 2017-06-05T07:33:41+00:00

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Bafa94 · 2017-06-05T12:00:07+00:00

I don't mean to be a dick but look at him. The girls aren't blind and given his look and let's call it enthusiasm he would come over creepy af.

PUA game works fine. It not working for an obvious outlier is pretty meaningless.

Griever114 · 2017-06-05T13:20:52+00:00

My problem with PUA is basically, there is ALWAYS a hoop to jump through if you fail.

You can: dress well, be attractive, under 10% BF, good job, Chad... but women can and will still refuse you... so PUA falls back to:

LIFT MORE, GET MORE $, DRESS BETTER, <5% BF...

NEVER ONCE is it their fault or have high standards. And god fucking help you if you arent a 8/10 naturally. You may as well die alone according to them.

WAY too much fucking work for sub 6/7's that will ruin you.

lollipoopex · 2017-06-05T10:22:15+00:00

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_Hachiman_Hikigaya_ · 2017-06-05T12:23:03+00:00

PUA just says buy sex. PUA is another synonymous for "hire a prostitute".

Don't be stupid PUA doesn't work. All the lift and be confidence is bullshit.

If you are ugly. The game or PUA or anything doesn't help you. No women want to sleep with a ugly men. I know that is unfair but that is the truth. You are screwed up bro rather than being depressed over that move on that.There is nothing you can do about that.

People are shallow. Both men and women are shallow. The problem women are more shallower than men. Even ugly women(1 or 2) thinks she has a chance to get 5 or 6 looking guy.

The whole personality thing is mega level bullshit. It doesn't matter if you are nice or mean if you are ugly that means you can't be laid or can't get women. Don't trust me but ask a nice looking guy to behave like nice and mean to women he get the women all the time. Personality and sex have no co-relation.

Sex is all about attraction. If you are ugly that's it bro genetics hit a hard nail on your life and crucifies you to the society and another interesting thing is people will enjoy watching you feeling insecure and struggling with your life.

PUA only work for the average blokes. That only gets 5 or 6 women. If you are damn lucky you may get a 9 or 10 women.

If you are ugly don't try PUA you only make a fool of yourself.

DoccSampson · 2017-06-05T13:55:50+00:00

Here's the Catch 22 I've found with PUA a lot of the time.

The best way to pick up girls is not giving a fuck. Do your thing, be a man, be a boss. Hold your head high, make things happen, work hard and succeed. Don't be distracted by vagina.

But, when you truly don't give a fuck, you don't want the bitches that start coming at you. You're working too hard, getting too much done to be distracted by vagina.

Beeinkc9 · 2017-06-05T17:41:38+00:00

I'm short. Im 5'6". All the game in the world won't overcome that preference. My 4'11" wife even called me short. I'm like, yes,but I'm much taller than you.

the_unseen_one · 2017-06-05T20:06:24+00:00

Being a PUA is being a panhandler for sex. You asked hundreds, if not thousands, of girls if they will let you fuck them (not have sex with you, let you fuck them) in hopes that one or two out of hundreds might be drunk enough, lonely enough, mad enough, or pity you enough to let you plunge in and out of their vagina for a few minutes. But with the advent of Tinder and other hook up apps, this method is even less effective than before. Why make your ex mad by fucking some ugly sad sack at the club when you have hundreds of Chads at your finger tips.

Do people even hook up at clubs and bars anymore? Seems obsolete when there's multiple apps for that.

General_Fear · 2017-06-05T21:09:29+00:00

If a man has 2 heads no amount of PUA skills will help.

PUA is for the average to good looking guy who needs a little nudge in the right direction.

Rotten_Red · 2017-06-05T17:50:21+00:00

The dude's cross-eyed. However unfair, that is going to turn off a lot of girls.

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ikhwan_arif · 2017-06-05T13:56:34+00:00

I would like to give my thoughts on Lifting discussed in the comments.

Lifting by itself isn't enough to have the girl fuck you. It's basically an opener for women to notice you.
You don't need to be ripped to get noticed. If you have a basic sportsmen physique, that's actually better.
Guys who lost the genetic lottery, won't benefit from all the lifting that they wish to do. If you're a dwarf that can lift 250 pounds, you're still a dwarf.
If you're a MGTOW, none of the things that I mentioned above should be any relevance to you whatsoever. You should lift weights, but not because you want to attract pussy, but because you want strength conditioning.

Also, you shouldn't JUST lift weights; having all that strength but not applying it is just stupid. Learn Martial Arts, learn how to use weapons. Shaolin Monks learn kung fu, not because they want to be chad, but because the discipline behind it will help achieve a higher state of mind.

By the way, Shaolin Monks lift weights too, just not your typical barbells or dumbbells.

As for PUA, not everything that they say is bullshit; their observations of Female Nature is for the most part pretty spot on, but their applications are fucking moronic. You have to sift through the dirt to find the gold.

Title	Why PUA is complete bullshit - story of a guy asking out hundreds of girls
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Upvotes	28
Comments	57
Date	June 5, 2017 7:33 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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