Watching men walk right back to the plantation

Grsflttchn · 2017-06-01T13:00:26+00:00

yeah these guys are like drug addicts, as long as they dont want the withdrawal themselves, they are lost. MGTOW is a process, some learn it fast, some never.

_Hachiman_Hikigaya_ · 2017-06-01T13:24:05+00:00

6 months huge red flag.

Guys there is no rush. Never ever propose to women.Leave her hanging. If she is nagging you about marriage dump her and get a new and younger women.

Fucking chameleons. Marriage is bullshit.

Marriage is the blue pill propaganda. If she loves you(which never happens) she will wait. Just show her the granny from the titanic and tell her to wait.

fmanly · 2017-06-01T15:01:23+00:00

I understand where they're coming from. I've been without my wife for a year and I still get pretty lonely at times. Not having much social contact is difficult, and many men tend to just socialize with their wives and her circle of friends/etc.

I still feel like a lot is missing. I realize now that there is also a lot of misery in marriage and it isn't really the right solution. Getting to the point of true self-actualization is harder. Many men never get there, and end up marrying or taking their lives.

Different people have different personalities. For some it isn't such a big deal, but for others just going home to an empty house after work every day is hard to sustain.

Grsflttchn · 2017-06-01T14:36:21+00:00

This is what happens if you aren't at peace with yourself. Some people are fiercely codependent, their perceived worth as a person only comes in the form of another's approval. They think they need a "special someone."

cleats4u · 2017-06-01T13:42:14+00:00

Stockholm syndrome.

Because nothing else explains this perfectly. You put up with her abuse and with time, you are okay to live with abuse. When one provider (of abuse) is gone, you immediately seek another.

dayone_27 · 2017-06-01T14:55:39+00:00

The blue pill conditioning is strong. It begins at birth and it can take years of actively dealing with reversing the effects of blue pill indoctrination. Even men who have encountered the red pill and spout it's truths can fall back into the marriage trap.

Teflon0819 · 2017-06-01T16:53:27+00:00

Female attention may as well be like heroin for some men, particularly the ones who have bought into the narrative that a man's value is determined by women.

airmaildolphin · 2017-06-01T17:17:56+00:00

I watched my own father get divorced and then marry the first woman he dated afterwards. Years later, he is miserable and everyone knows it's because of his current wife.

ManIsWalking · 2017-06-01T19:46:31+00:00

Some dudes, especially those who have been in an LTR for a bit just don't know how to function without a master. I believe they are truly uncomfortable if they don't have a bitching harpy constantly slinging demands and chores at them.

MRA-automatron-2kb · 2017-06-01T15:57:38+00:00

In one thread on the MRA forum they see MGTOWs as weak for not being in relationships, but NO MGTOWs are stronger and more responsible because they don't rely on others for their self actualisation and happiness.

BHeletrica · 2017-06-01T16:34:17+00:00

Marriage these days is a meat grinder of men.

2017-06-01T17:11:39+00:00

By now I'm certain that 6 months is the biological cutoff point for relationships. After that long, women decide they're bored and split (usually by cheating and distancing, so they don't take any blame) or they decide you are sufficient and push for marriage/babies.

2017-06-01T18:14:49+00:00

That is not a coincidence. I know many guys that do that because that first divorce threw them completely out of balance so they need something to top that off. Its the same as drugs they need something to replace it, or to escalate to even if they dont admit it.

In my situation Ive often broken up and then I feel the need to have another girlfriend asap. I know its a weak part of myself but thats how it works best. Because it triggers in your brain the abudance thing, and the ocytoxin generated by this new girl will make you think less about your last one. In the marriage thing is this that i describe but one steroids. They feel oneitis for one women to the point of giving up their freedom, wealth etc... Then when she starts trouble - divorce, but then they cant just have a girlfriend, because psychological: a relationship, is not superior to a marriage as a commitment, and they need to feel that what they are doing is going somewhere more complex than the previous.

I know guys who marry and divorce before having children. The next relationship they have they are crazy for having children (escalation).

This is why mgtow is never going to be so widespread. The same way healthy lifestyles like eating healthy, gym, no drugs, no alcohol is only followed by a minority. Because men are weak afterall and the environment we live nowadays is a weakening environment.

Even most who were broken by women and when presented with facts and mgtow stuff most will still believe NAWALT.

There is a huge pressure for men and the only way is going your own way.

2017-06-01T17:03:26+00:00

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gundahir · 2017-06-01T19:10:37+00:00

as stardusk said, most men are one blowjob away. that includes mgtow.

FREE_PALESTINE_NOW · 2017-06-01T22:21:24+00:00

It should not be legally possible to remarry after a divorce. If you get divorced, you clearly don't take the idea of marriage very seriously

2017-06-01T16:56:23+00:00

I did it twice. Never again. It did take me 12 years to get stupid again.

2017-06-01T22:07:56+00:00

First stupid bitch cut me off when I forgot to take out the trash once. She also didnt put up with me wanting to drink and play video games all the time. Better cuck next time. Ooop, what do you know, "we're engaged" maybe this will be different. Insanity.....doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

ikhwan_arif · 2017-06-01T22:15:00+00:00

You can't save people who don't want to be saved; you can only save you.

Morb357 · 2017-06-01T22:38:51+00:00

Bluepillers don't know any better. Be grateful you woke up.

a17c81a3 · 2017-06-01T22:39:28+00:00

I have normally smart friends still thinking they will find true love on Tinder.

Basically to be truly MGTOW or redpill you HAVE to accept that women don't really love men and ANY interaction with them is basically a trade or a power struggle.

feedmecarrots · 2017-06-02T01:15:35+00:00

If they are real friends, let them know that they can always sleep on your sofa. If they are not, chalk it up to foolishness. You tried.

FREE_PALESTINE_NOW · 2017-06-02T02:12:17+00:00

People are lemmings dude, it's just the way that 99% of people are wired. Even most of you still work and pay taxes to daddy government. You won't let a woman steal from you, but daddy government can take what he wants

2017-06-02T04:57:21+00:00

I know of a few people like this. They cannot be alone and work of emotions. Quite sad but I just let them be and watch from very far.

dirtydog113 · 2017-06-02T10:22:09+00:00

Work with a bloke who has been there three times.Has lost everything.Called him out on it one night and asked , what didn't you learn the first time, He admitted he was an idiot .Dropped a few hints about mgtow. Hopefully he will do the research and go his own way.Some people are just scared of leaving the plantation I suppose

Title	Watching men walk right back to the plantation
Author	doubleecho88
Upvotes	108
Comments	47
Date	June 1, 2017 12:33 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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