I went to a music festival over the weekend in a really really remote place. My friends and I got on the shuttle vehicle with about 4 other people. I was wearing my 4th of July parade shirt, has eagles and the american flag on it, fucking patriotic as shit, at a hippie fest.

Walking to the beach from the grocery store, the old lady from the shuttle, comes up and asks 'Where did you get that shirt', I reply 'I earned this shirt', I organize the parade in my town and that's how I got it. She then says, 'can I have it' I turn around and stop look at her and say, 'whaddya gonna trade?' she offers me her blouse and I scoff, we have fun, we flirt. I make grandma's wet, it's my cross to bear. She introduces us to her daughter and son-in-law, the daughter A says 'We aern't even engaged', I thought she was basically showing she thought there was a future with this guy and was not trying to pressure him. My friend agreed with that reading.

Much later I'm at the communal camp fire, the festival grounds didn't have individual campfires, sitting next to a passed out guy, because no one would sit near him, and it was a prime spot. 'A' comes by and says hi, I ask 'how you doin' which she misunderstands, we end up talking, she skoots closer,we are touching leaning in. She says 'have you seen my boyfriend', 'No, but it's hard to see people in the dark' we laugh and joke about her mom being all obsessed with my shirt. I'm thinking she's really into me. Then passed out dude sits up, it's her boyfriend. She backs away, seems super flustered. He's totally wasted, so she takes her boyfriend to the campsite, says she'll be back, I didn't believe her.

A bit later she rejoins the campfire but I'm sitting swaying with people and singing. After a bit she sits next to me, touching again, then backs off, sets her purse between us. Then nervously puts it on the ground behind us and then starts touching again, I'm touching her she's dancing around for me. I'm all like, wow she's really into me, I'm starting think about how I should get us alone soon. This is where it starts getting TRP. She tells me that her BF is upset because he believes she's going around whoring. I laugh, she then says, 'I'm a good girl, I don't do that', I don't believe her, 'Yeah, haha, there's lots of good girls out there.' Now the body language is getting intense, more flirting and bragging on her part. I ask how she and her boyfriend met. Then boyfriend stealthily shows up and I jet.

She's gone the next day, a day earlier than she said the night before.

I'm not sure about everything going on here, but I cannot help but think that her mom wanting me had something to do with this. I personally never felt that when someone cheats it's the responsibility of the 3rd party, ever, it's the cheater. During the second interaction I was super bemused, it was the first time I had first hand experienced such bald faced hypergamy, it was like a script. I honestly was impressed that dude kept an eye on her, good he's clear eyed enough to pay attention. I was not impressed that he expressed these feelings to her.