As a 24 year old who has never had a girlfriend before or even had sex before, I have always been a solitary person since childhood till now—it never even consciously dawn on me that I had actively since childhood avoided girls, and now, women.

In hindsight, I've always instinctively known the nature and wiles of women. I have have always avoided them. I can remember how things would be all friendly and fun among boys until some girl interfered, which would normally ruin the fun and create emotional chaos.

Until recently, it occurred to me that I had unwittingly lived throughout my life with a certain "frame": to be independent and ME. This translates into a broader meaning than just as written. That is: I should never allow myself to be manipulated/ swayed by popular opinions or even peer pressure or society in general (and I have been successful at this, ALWAYS); I should always...and only ALWAYS pursue the truth; I should never fear to not conform; I should do what I know is right, ALWAYS; and (though not the last) I should always go my way (and I have always been a loner).

I have this unyielding, decisive frame that:

  • I must NEVER chase after women (which I've always abided by).

  • I must NEVER ask for a girl's number, though I developed this quite recently, and I'm sticking to that.

  • I must NEVER be the first to approach a woman.

  • I should go with my decisions and not vacillate between mine and others'.

I ask you fellow MGTOWs: Does anyone have a similar temperament? Does anyone have a similar frame?

What's your frame as an MGTOW?