How to get rid of the mothers demands for grandchildren?

587Boat · 2017-04-28T00:32:41+00:00

I used to tell my mother that I couldn't throw a rock near a school yard in Bangkok for fear of hitting one of her grandchildren.

Mom didn't think it was as funny as I did.

toolazytoregisterlol · 2017-04-28T08:20:20+00:00

r/childfree.

UncleDisgusting · 2017-04-28T03:41:56+00:00

You have to do what's in your best interests and not let yourself be shamed by others needs or motives.
You might want to consider a vasectomy once you're of legal age to do so. There may even be other options available to you within a few years such as Vasalgel. The question/pressure to produce grandchildren may be inevitable depending on your parents, culture, religion, etc but in your early to mid twenties you can tell whoever you feel is pressuring you that you are working on your education and skill sets.
In your mid to late twenties, tell them you are focusing on your career.
And in your thirties and forties...well at that point hopefully you'll be established and confident enough to tell whoever is asking that you flat out don't care to have children. Do what makes you happy on your own timetable. Don't let anyone or anything mortgage your future.

mofono · 2017-04-28T11:56:15+00:00

If you cannot afford to move out, tell her you cannot afford children. If you can afford children, you can afford to move out.

Teflon0819 · 2017-04-28T07:51:15+00:00

Tell her that your doctor told you that you are sterile and incapable of having kids.

Bam, done deal.

Oh, you're still in high school? What the fuck is your mom doing demanding grandchildren from her still minor son?

toolazytoregisterlol · 2017-04-28T08:22:58+00:00

You don't have to do anything. If you say you don't want kids, people will just think "Oh, he will change his mind". Just keep doing what you've been doing and there will come a day when people will say "Oh shit. He was serious". By that time it will be too late. lol.

zezozio · 2017-04-28T10:44:01+00:00

Man up!

Take it by the horn and just say : "Mom, it won't happen ! Leave me alone with this". If you want to, you can add "many many girls are whorish, vain, inconsequent and are of little interest to me. I don't want to date them, I don't see the use of marriage, of becoming a slave to a woman's desires. You will not be a gramma".

DJGrom · 2017-04-28T11:32:15+00:00

"How'd that work out for dad?" Usually works if you were raised by a single mom

inspiron3000 · 2017-04-28T10:33:15+00:00

Two reasonable options:
1) Tell her to shut the fuck up.
2) Stop talking with her.

If you live at home, move.

2017-04-28T12:14:24+00:00

Just say "I haven't found the right one. Most girls reject me because I'm too nice"

Rescuedbeta · 2017-04-28T22:04:10+00:00

If she is a single mother or filed for divorce and raped your father then tell her she is the reason why you won't have children. You don't want to have your children stolen from you and have your resources harvested. Stopped my single mother and all 4 of my sisters who are single mothers from bringing it up.

gods_bones · 2017-04-29T08:31:47+00:00

Get a vasectomy (once you are a legal adult), and tell her afterwards.

Title	How to get rid of the mothers demands for grandchildren?
Author	accidentalskulling
Upvotes	7
Comments	22
Date	April 28, 2017 12:26 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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