Your girlfriend is being completely unreasonable. She wants all the advantages of a car without paying for a car, or gas, or insurance.. and doing it all by depriving you of all of those things, which you ARE paying for.
Holy cow, that entitlement! The post is removed and now locked. But we have the archive
My girlfriend of 2 years just got a job in an office about 30 minutes away by driving or an hour away by bus. My commute to work is half that time, by car and bus. I have a car and she doesn’t. She told me that she needs to use my car everyday since her commute is much longer. I told her no because it’s my car and I worked really hard to get it. I’d be okay dropping her off every day since she starts work before I do and she’ll just have to bus home, but not with her taking my car and forcing me to use the bus to and from work.
Afterwards, she said that if she uses the bus I have to pay her bus fare, but instead I gave her a college student bus pass that is valid for 6 months (we both just graduated college and are no longer enrolled). That really pissed her off and she suggested that she move out if I dont budge on the issue. She’s also saying that she might as well quit her job if I make her ride the bus.
I told her that I’m not making her do anything and that it’s my car and I can do whatever I want to it. I said the only way I will let her take it is if she pays the car insurance bill and solely pays for gas. The argument just got worse.
And i being inconsiderate here? I know my commute is much shorter, but it’s my car. I feel like she’s being selfish. What to do?
Entitlement (Female)
She told me that she needs to use my car everyday
if she uses the bus I have to pay her bus fare
Threats/ Gaslighting (Female)
she suggested that she move out if I dont budge on the issue
she might as well quit her job if I make her ride the bus
The argument just got worse (and we know what it means)
Being Reasonable (Male)
I’d be okay dropping her off every day since she starts work before I do
instead I gave her a college student bus pass that is valid for 6 months
the only way I will let her take it is if she pays the car insurance bill and solely pays for gas
Hmmm, methinks someone is laying the groundwork for a breakup in case there's some handsome, successful options at the new workplace. Had a fair few mates whose girlfriends at university suddenly went cold and ditched them once they entered the workforce.
Anyone who threatens to leave or hints at it as part of an argument doesn’t deserve the time of day.
My ex GF pulled some similar shit, along the lines of: “If this isn’t what you want, go find someone who is. Life’s too short.” I dropped her then and there. She didn’t take it well. Blocked me on all social media and everything.
Post was submitted 13 hours ago and has already being removed which is indicative of regrets and/or missus using her special triangle with a certain rate of success.
It still possible to access OP's comment section. Looks like his SpecialSnowFake has launched an Operation Barbarossa on his appartment, his car, even his life. Good luck to him.
[–]rationalthought31420 points21 points22 points (4 children) | Copy Link
Why do these crossposts always lead to locked threads?
[–]Laguna92430 points31 points32 points (3 children) | Copy Link
they must lock it before it gets hijacked by rational thoughts and reason
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Top comment:
That's why.
[–]justiceavenger2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Can't criticize strong independent woman now can we.
[–]MincoLesharo15 points16 points17 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Briffaults Law
[–]goodbeertimes10 points11 points12 points (4 children) | Copy Link
Holy cow, that entitlement! The post is removed and now locked. But we have the archive
Entitlement (Female)
Threats/ Gaslighting (Female)
Being Reasonable (Male)
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Hmmm, methinks someone is laying the groundwork for a breakup in case there's some handsome, successful options at the new workplace. Had a fair few mates whose girlfriends at university suddenly went cold and ditched them once they entered the workforce.
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Bye! Have a nice time 👋
[–]deadBeefCafe20143 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Anyone who threatens to leave or hints at it as part of an argument doesn’t deserve the time of day.
My ex GF pulled some similar shit, along the lines of: “If this isn’t what you want, go find someone who is. Life’s too short.” I dropped her then and there. She didn’t take it well. Blocked me on all social media and everything.
Backbone feels good. I hope this guys finds his.
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Good for you for not allowing her to use up your resources. Be strong and hold frame. Do you cohabitate?
[–]Aemilia21[S] 7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
YIKES! 9:47 PM ---> 9:54 PM.
[–]Teflon08195 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
If men didn't put up with this kind of shit for pussy then women wouldn't have become so insufferably entitled.
I can't believe it took this long, but I'm glad to see the tides are slowly starting to turn.
Interesting times ahead of us.
[–]hollybegin4 points5 points6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Post was submitted 13 hours ago and has already being removed which is indicative of regrets and/or missus using her special triangle with a certain rate of success.
It still possible to access OP's comment section. Looks like his SpecialSnowFake has launched an Operation Barbarossa on his appartment, his car, even his life. Good luck to him.
[–]LuvMeTendieLuvMeTrue0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
These people SMH.
Being MGTOW is like being Germany watching France and UK go to war between themselves.
[–]Rick_OShay10 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Removed?
So what was the post about?
[–]247spyz4life0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't do it, women are horrible drivers and will eventually wreck every vehicle they are behind the wheel of
[–]DarwinianKEKistani0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Archive.is this shit