What's the Point

MagnusVeritas · 2018-01-12T01:30:41+00:00

I dont believe on sleeping around/ sex before marriage

You're going to be eaten alive for three reasons:

Women do believe in promiscuity before and during marriage.
Women will you resent you as a beta male for your demonstrative lack of sexual experience in physical and psychological terms.
Your sexual inexperience will result in you becoming severely more attached to your mate than she will be to you. The intensity of your attachment will translate as neediness and will result in rejection.

A whole world of emotional scarring awaits you if you follow this path.

trouble_with_trilbys · 2018-01-12T00:31:06+00:00

You can be MGTOW and not go PnD.

Monk mode can work, but has its own dangers.

Others will have good suggestions.

Be patient and give yourself some space.

That's what's important before you make a decision you'll regret with women.

barcok · 2018-01-12T00:38:24+00:00

The point is self-preservation.

You should take a look at how wrong marriages can go and ask around about the compromises married men have had to make. Almost every marriage I've known of have ended or are embroiled in infidelity.

Even if you don't want to sleep around I'd advise you to avoid marriage. By all means have relationships and sex with women, one at a time, but don't over commit or get married. It's just not worth the trouble.

Being MGTOW isn't about avoiding women to everyone. For some men it's meeting women on terms that are favorable to men. To me that means no cohabitation, no marriage and no nonsense. One day I see myself entirely removing that source of drama from my life and that will be MGTOW too.

ShadyShopkeeper · 2018-01-12T01:07:57+00:00

We have a running joke at the shop, where the reason I won't hire a beautiful woman is because she will drop the customer's IQ by 20 points, and some guys don't have 20 points to spare.

FreeSquad · 2018-01-12T00:55:29+00:00

Use that burning inside towards something else.

A man's passions only last for so long. He can choose to spend it on a female, or he can choose to spend it on other things. The female, though, will generally not allow anything else but her to be the focus.

I will tell you this though: in spending your time and energy on pursuits as investments in yourself you will reap what you sow: success cannot elude the man who is relentless.

The determined man will find wealth, friendships, and an inner fortitude that so many among his peers can not muster the courage to even attempt.

However, as you can see, the real MGTOW lifestyle is not for the faint of heart. He must have mastery over himself, and he must undergo a series of trials alone to achieve this.

justforpornokayguys · 2018-01-12T01:32:55+00:00

There is no point. Either what you hear resounds in your heart of hearts, or it doesn't. This isn't some boys club where you have to prove your mgtow-ness over fear of hazing. It's just how we see the world. Choose your own path. Fact of the matter is, we are all garbage. But I'd rather take out my own trash than to fucked taking out mine and someone else's.

RedPillMGTOW · 2018-01-12T01:26:35+00:00

I am considering going my own way for a while to focus on personal goals

That's really not how it works.

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I dont believe on sleeping around/ sex before marriage so i dont see how i could be compatibile witht the mgtow lifestyle.

THAT is not "the MGTOW lifestyle" -- its the lifestyle of "pump & dump" pretend/wannabe MGTOW types -- most of them end up getting trapped (because you play with fire, you gonna get your arse burned).

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Why am I drawn to the deadly flame that will surely burn me.

Because you're an idiot?

-- Seriously. That's a big part of it, you're going to allow your dick to overrule your brain... pretty much the definition of idiocy.

theWillpowerEngine · 2018-01-12T01:38:31+00:00

It's never been easier to deal with your sex drive than it is today, and that doesn't have to mean sportfucking or escorts or real people. You've got porn, good male sex toys, etc.

Consider also why you don't believe in sex before marriage, who put that belief in your head, and who is served by it, and who suffers from it. I don't want to challenge any deeply held beliefs, but every belief you have should be examined and judged. Beliefs are tools, throw away the ones that don't work.

Honestly, getting married just so you can have sex (especially in this day and age) is absurd.

2018-01-12T01:48:05+00:00

A woman might be good your thinking?? It is ALWAYS good at first. Constant sex. She respects, listens to your problems, can stay up all night talking to you blah blah. After the initial love potion wears off. It's hell because your involved and you catch feelings. Then she stops giving you sex. Stops doing all those things that made it great and starts doing them for someone else WHILE with you. Then the cycle continues. You like women that's awesome, me too. Just go out and fuck them. Always leave them wanting more and never get in too deep or else it will ruin you. Focus on yourself, build a empire then you'll have so much poontang you won't even want a relationship. If thats not your style then go monk. You'll be better off either way. The choice is yours man.

Supreme_Salt_Lord · 2018-01-12T01:42:00+00:00

Just be yourself man. You can have a woman and be MGTOW. MGTOW is not letting society define you anymore. You can have all the sex with who ever or none at all. You can have 100 women or none. Whatever makes you happy, without purposefully hurting others ofcourse.

Also watch the women u date. Stay away from tinder women. Do online dating and be as honest about urself in ur profile and just be careful. It will be a long road to find a good woman but if u really really want that then it will be worth.

Title	What's the Point
Author	FreeSquad
Upvotes	8
Comments	20
Date	January 12, 2018 12:28 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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