Sandman youtube video love is a lie. Are there really no good women?

git_hur_done · 2018-01-11T19:59:21+00:00

Don’t leave her.

BUT

Load up on as many red pills as you can, and be on your guard. Always.

MadPreacher1AD · 2018-01-11T20:01:51+00:00

I don't care.

CorpulentLeprechaun · 2018-01-11T20:04:52+00:00

Stop being a pussy and break up with her.

Sol_Install · 2018-01-11T20:11:40+00:00

I will explain to you the best that I can what causes these issues. The thing about women and deception is that the degrees to which they go to is astounding. There are women who will take care of you when you're ill. Even hospitalized. They will do just about any sexual act that can cross your mind. Support what you like 100%. Think about that for a second. I am willing to bet at some a man is going to tell you he had a woman that was like yours. She ended up being an AWALT.

Your woman may in fact be doing all that because she sees something in you worth investing in. I.e. Briffault's Law. She could every well be doing that. Earlier this week we had a guy who decieved the woman he was with by presenting himself as getting a promotion and driving 2 hours to be with her many times but she didn't know that.

To be honest with men, the best I can say you can hope for is a woman that isn't a total pain the ass the be with. But that degree of deception, I couldn't believe when I first learned of it. It still amazes me. You can't trust them anyway you cut it. Regarding AWALT/NAWALT. It doesn't mean that every woman is the evil lying piece of shit. There are degrees to this.

rtmlex · 2018-01-11T20:28:42+00:00

I’m not the one to destroy a man’s happiness, what works, works. But beware, your girl is good. But she can turn any time.

thetruthhuntsme · 2018-01-11T20:31:41+00:00

We can't decide for you but beware purple pills. "I have this amazing girlfriend who seems like she'd do anything for me ... She never complained just took good care of me ... Is it in women's nature to be deceptive."

Women are still human but you contradict what you think with what you feel. Many married men in "happy" relationships often conned themselves into believing they're happy. Give a man freedom immediately he won't understand what it means. Give a man enough freedom so he can walk outside until she starts pulling one chain a day, his concept of freedom slowly distorts.

Ultimately, women in your case will do 1 of 3 things. 1, she will make you feel this way only so long until she starts making changes for you to adapt to. More attention to her. 2, she's a NAWALT in disguise. I won't say joke about how she might cheat on you but that can be one way to figure out if she has an agenda and she most certainly probably does. The other thing; women won't flip until you marry sometimes. It's basically a defense mechanism employed to steal your resources so she doesn't have to remain committed. 3, depending on how long the relationship has lasted, and her history of actions in relationships and friendship with men, she may be someone you will want to pump and dump but don't be stupid. If she's really not psychotic and you value companionship, you can't date and you can't marry. If she can't grasp it or reason with it and you feel emotionally compelled to continue your relationship regardless, she is really AWALT.

Women are unfortunately a lot like blackjack, if you can't find a perfect 21 you gotta know when to cut your losses.

2018-01-11T21:24:52+00:00

If she has not fucked any other guys you have a chance. Learn the principles of game, become the most awesome you that you can be, and work hard to keep her -- it's very possible, in fact the odds are in your favor!

If she has fucked 1 other guy, you can take a gamble, but your statistical chances of success go down markedly.

If she has fucked 2 or more guys, get out. You have a better chance of winning by playing roulette and going all-in on a color.

Relevant chart: https://imgur.com/ZC5SgCT

internet_badass_here · 2018-01-11T22:22:26+00:00

It's not that she's consciously plotting to turn on you, she just doesn't love you the way that you might love her. She'll never love you unconditionally... Her love and loyalty will always be conditional to what she believes she is getting out of the relationship.

I think that your relationship may still be in the infatuation phase. Stick with her long enough and eventually you will see other sides to her. Just make sure that you take steps to protect yourself while you are in this relationship. Don't let her move in, don't get her pregnant, and don't marry her.

It's better not to be in a relationship at all, but if you are in one, best to take precautions.

OliverVato · 2018-01-11T23:25:07+00:00

women are like food, all food spoil. it just that some food take more time to spoil then other.

be ready to throw it out when food go bad

Scout_477 · 2018-01-11T22:18:58+00:00

I hate you because I am exactly like you. I see a woman taking care of her husband, standing up for men and being a traditional woman, and I instantly get attached. Difference is I'm lucky enough to look bad, if I tried to ask one out on a date I'd be shot down immediately and reminded of the truth.

Have you ever read The Odyssey? Do you remember reading about Calypso? Odysseus was drifting across the sea, desperate to find an island. All his men were dead, and he finally came across one. Calypso then welcomed Odysseus, fucking him and taking care of him day in and day out. However, as soon as he tried leaving when he saw a ship to sail back to Ithica, she stopped him. That is what she will do to you.

Freedom is bliss, and both you and me have to remember that. Just cause the massa's treat you nicely doesn't mean you can't treat yourself better.

2018-01-11T22:36:39+00:00

You're getting it but you're missing the mark in some regards.

Your gut totally loves you man. You were shitting yourself and she was still there for you? That's an OG A1 prime time girl. Good for you.

But the thing you're missing- that is subject to change. Sure she loves you... right now. But get laid off work? Get out of shape? She meets a chad and catches feelIngs? Well my friend, she may not love you for long.

Maybe she never really loved you. Maybe she just settled for you because you're always there for her. You've always been needy too. Plus you don't really make that much money. And she's so young! Who knows what fun she is missing out on?

That last paragraph is her rationalizations when she falls out of love. She isn't intentionally setting you up or manipulating you, well some girls do but let's assume she isn't.

Girls are just fickle. Don't get married. Stay vigilant

findthemiddle · 2018-01-11T23:27:21+00:00

Dont leave her but stay awake. Dont let her wear you down.

How old are the two of you? Young women do these things. Things change.

2018-01-11T23:44:12+00:00

the current state of your relationship is as far as it should ever go. As soon as marriage talk comes up, leave her. Your oneitis then could probably become a problem for some time.

Incapaisa · 2018-01-12T00:46:50+00:00

Enjoy it while you can... "remember she was never yours, it was just your turn" At some point she can ghost you, monkey branch you or just have you provide/beta while she gets action on the side. Don't Marry Her for any reason. Don't co-habituate. Don't get her pregnant unless you want a kid and know having a kid come with possible child support/custody battle.

2018-01-12T01:57:40+00:00

Don't break up with her. Enjoy her while you can.

Don't expect her to love you forever and don't fall head over heels for her. That's how you stop yourself from looking like a fool when her "love" for you eventually disapears.

rationalthought314 · 2018-01-12T02:54:54+00:00

take the high ground and stay with her but always be wary that it's a trap so if she leaves you, you won't be devastated

gifm4ster · 2018-01-12T03:18:54+00:00

Prepare for all possibilities and have an exit strategy. Look out for red flags and once you see the symptoms, abort. That’s really all I can say. Don’t put a ring on her, don’t invest in her emotionally or financially. If she really is a NAWALT unicorn, she would stay with you no matter what you choose to do.

Other than that good luck and all the best

Title	Sandman youtube video love is a lie. Are there really no good women?
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Date	January 11, 2018 7:56 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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