It makes it a lot easier to deal with women when you see them for what they are, auctioneers (maybe) salesmen. Women are all trying to sell you a fantasy (The cost? Your money, servitude and status). They are trying to sell you the dream of "love" as well as their own beauty (also changed in many illusory ways such as makeup). However, like true auctioneers they are looking and putting their focus on the highest bidders. Even if you put out a bid, the second a new higher bid comes in - they shift their focus and start selling harder to the top bidder. They put more energy in convincing the higher bidder of the "fantasy". Maybe they will pursue the potential customer or "Big Fish" with more effort than the smaller customer just like any established salesperson.

When women approach you, think about it the same way you would a street vendor. Most of us see street vendors as an annoyance who are trying to sell us some bullshit. Usually some second-hand knock-off items or other garbage. We usually just ignore it or say "I'm good". We are too busy to stop and hear their spiel and get roped into it. You know the second you stop to talk to a street vendor you're gonna be standing there for 10 minutes thinking to yourself, "Son of a bitch why did I acknowledge them".

Next time you see a woman at the bar, remember she is just an auctioneer or street vendor out there to sell you a fantasy. You can even watch her around all her beta orbiters dolling-out "the dream" as they pander out their bids. Don't be conned into the "fantasy-dream-love-boat-platinum-package" for only a small price of everything you own and are.