So this all began about a year and a half ago, and i started this friendship with this girl i knew from some community event. We started to really get to know each other and became close and best friends. I always knew she liked me and we started dating. Anyhow, she is now my girlfriend and her mom, who i started working for when her and i were just friends, knows about the relationship. She is so far pretty cool with it, but thats when i start to have a dillema. Ive been looking into being my own man, and after being through a few bad relationships, i want to just be alone and not care much about women at the moment. How do i get out of this, while keeping my job, and still being able to be civil with her?