Going monk mode after break up

mgtow4ever · 2018-01-09T14:09:39+00:00

Wait what. You didn't sleep together after a year?

cashmoney_x · 2018-01-09T15:16:39+00:00

"But she said she lost all trust in me."

HAHAHHAHA. Listen to me: All that is bullshit. The real reason is that she got negative feedback from others and needs to protect her image/ego/social standing. If other girls were jealous instead of critical she would have been bragging about sleeping with you herself.

Your smv was simply too low.

R3ddit_Is_Trash · 2018-01-09T14:16:11+00:00

This is not mgtow material.

PadaV4 · 2018-01-09T15:24:41+00:00

You where together for a year, and she wonders that people would think that you are sleeping together? Is she retarded?

cleats4u · 2018-01-09T15:27:18+00:00

My friend when a woman breaks it off she is already over you because she has someone else. If she contacts you in 3 or 4 months saying she made a mistake it's because the asshole didn't buy her an expensive gift, stopped kissing her ass or dumped her. Hell she may even show up in 5 years with 2 kids talking about unrequited love. Lol.

TryDoingSomethingNew · 2018-01-09T14:45:57+00:00

She was actually a semi decent girl

I would ask you to think about what this means. She was semidecent.

What is "semi-decent"? It's less than ideal...unsatisfactory.

Ultimately, look at it and understand that she honestly wasn't that great, and clearly couldn't deal with things the right way. And you suffered because of it.

So you're not really losing anything good, but rather you're free from a less-than-ideal situation and woman.

JayJayEcks · 2018-01-09T15:41:49+00:00

Sex doll.

Get one.

Dvd280 · 2018-01-09T16:59:35+00:00

I really dont get why you are upset, you litterally lost nothing, you didnt even get sex so what was she good for other than that?

bermalux · 2018-01-09T17:20:51+00:00

I´m with you man.

2018 is the year I go monk too and focus on oneself is the best we can do in these times. The women are getting crazier in these days and I think it's great that you take a break from porn, junk food, sex and fapping - same here.

Don´t blame yourself for this too much. Learn from it. Reflect on yourself and learn from your experiences, no matter how they went, so they were not in vain.

She will do what she wants to do. You can´t influence it. She has not lost confidence in you, but in herself, but that's not your job. As you rightly say: take care of you. She is responsible for herself. Take your time, be patient with yourself and find your own peace and joy.

Too many relationships out there only happen because both partners want the other one to make them happy. When you realize this, you take care of your own happiness, which is independent of external circumstances. Because the partner has the power to give you what you think you are missing, but also the power to take it from you. This gap is to find out and fix it by yourself.

All the best!

deepspace7 · 2018-01-09T17:46:33+00:00

If you were like a Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp in their prime do you think she would be having this pissy attitude about you telling others? Heck no. You wouldn't be able to muzzle her. She would be going on social media and singing it from roof tops.

uglymtherfker · 2018-01-09T20:21:41+00:00

Actually that's what women do when they're bored of you and wanna move on. She obviously just said the first thing she could think of to have an excuse to break up with you. - Women never just tell you what the problem is or that they rode another dick because they wanna be the victim!

fcb98292 · 2018-01-09T21:41:46+00:00

Who cares what she believes. End your dependency on what females think or want. Why choose to dilute your time or energy? Go enjoy that mountain bike. You will find out it is much better to be pursued by pussy than to pursue it. Because now it will be YOU who says no.

ZCnegan · 2018-01-10T02:53:31+00:00

Wtf. You were not banging her? Fake post...

bad_guy_steve · 2018-01-09T18:31:16+00:00

I think she got bored of you if she made up bullshit like that. What are you blaming yourself for? That you didn't hold frame? fuck that

Title	Going monk mode after break up
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	42
Comments	19
Date	January 9, 2018 1:39 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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