So many men stress themselves out trying to perfect these PUA techniques and behave like an "alpha" male in the belief it will make them irresistible to women.
Yet the reality is a woman will either find you attract or she won't, in my opinion there's no point putting large amounts of effort into this PUA stuff because. 90% of attraction is how physically attractive you are, which no amount of PUA techniques is going to change any way.
The best bet in my opinion is to dress as well as you can, stay in as good shape as you can and improve yourself as a man as much as you can, but for your own benefit, not for anyone elses.
There's absolutely no point in obsessing over attracting women because the reality is a woman will either be attracted to you or she won't.
In contrast, this PUA/red pill stuff encourages men to become absolutely obsessive in pursuing women and convincing themselves that if they get their technique right they WILL win her affections.
The real red pill is MGTOW, in fact I think it's laughable that PUAs call themselves the red pill. In reality PUAs and white knights are just two sides of the same coin. MGTOW is the real resistance.
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It's kind of pointless for me to argue with you on this, especially in MGTOW, but you can improve your odds to picking up the she devils with some things. Also it is possible to be just attractive, and chicks think you're a doofus and not want to do you either.
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Tyler, I complete agree with you. Making oneself attractive, boosting confidence in yourself, and learning how women shit test (and how to respond... aka hold frame) will certainly improve the perception of that man to all around him.
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Yes yes. I know this isn't that side of TRP here, but game is real. Learning body language is real. Female psychology is real. Is there a one trick, cover all method to sleep with every single woman on earth the first night- no. Can you learn to read women, and at least figure certain ones or kinds out- yes.
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Spot on. I don't devote myself to talking to 10 new women per day, I don't judge my worth by partner count, and frankly I don't give a shit if other men do or don't pursue pussy. Simply put, I'm not a Pick Up Artist.
I am however, a student of human nature and have learned to utilize Game sufficiently for my needs. Sexual, social, etc.
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I've historically had a pussy problem, like an addiction, and used it to find my next fix. I also have to admit they usually turned into flings, or mini relationships based around sex, until one or both of us realized we didn't have enough else in common.
Or it just went to shit for draw a number out of a hat reason why, like most relationships do anyway.
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Exactly. Alphas only act confident and assertive because they're alpha and can get away with it. Beta males who act confident and assertive are seen as weird and creepy. PUA techniques only work if you're actually attractive to begin with. The only real way to increase your sexual market value is to get more fit, or make more money.
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