I want children, but not a wife

2016-12-29T20:33:32+00:00

I don't want to deprive kids of a double-parent household

If your parents are alive they will most probably accept the kid and njoy being around him. But I agree. Imo kids need a healthy loving family to grow up in including a mom and a dad.

Its kind of a bummer considering the man hate out there. You simply cant turn a ho into a loving mother without the legal dangers and possible repercussions.

Taking daily abuse and neverending nagging for the sake of having kids is simply not worth it.

I talked to my friends gf recently and neither he nor she can imagine living together let alone having kids. Otoh I know people who are struggeling to keep their relationship intact.

I dont want to sound too depressing but in todays anti-male climate the nuclear family cannot thrive. Its a raw deal and men dont want any part of it and rightfully so.

2016-12-29T20:43:21+00:00

I would not pursue such an endeavor with a modern day woman. Do you have pets? I'd recommend getting a dog and see how you can handle that before dealing with humans children.

metaqaulone · 2016-12-29T21:15:01+00:00

Having a family today is like being morpheus and the crew on the nebucadnessar ship in the matrix being plugged in, looking depressed, drinking moonshine, eating broth, wearing post apocalyptic clothing, competing with machines for jobs, its not worth it, having children in these conditions.

belhaj7 · 2016-12-29T21:46:41+00:00

You need free time and a lot of money. Talking here about above 500k in a period of 0 to 18 years. You don't want just a kid you also would like to spend time with the kid. So free time is essential.

lollipoopex · 2016-12-29T21:49:09+00:00

Yes women are this and that, but if you want kids there is no way around a woman and if you have a child you have to provide for it and to at least get a long with its mother.

You simply don't go only your own way for the time you raise kids.

Thats how I see it.

Rescuedbeta · 2016-12-29T23:01:14+00:00

I spent $75,000 on just child support for 1 child over 18 years. Surrogate and a good lawyer would have cost half.

SamCasey98 · 2016-12-30T00:29:55+00:00

Adoption is a broad subject. I would say there is way to get there unless money is a limitation.

How you get there depends a lot on what the climate, legally and socially, is locally.

I recommend you take a free face-to-face meeting with a local female attorney with adoption experience and listen carefully to language, spoken and body. I would think you would have a pretty clear understanding of your obstacles at that point.

Folwart · 2016-12-30T05:09:45+00:00

Do you want to reincarnate back here? If the answer is no, do not procreate.

RedFoxOnFire · 2016-12-30T06:32:19+00:00

Part of MGTOW is going your own way. If you want a kid, well there are plenty of kids who need a good father figure. However, I would advise against getting a second person to act as a mother. That's a future custody battle you might lose.

Title	I want children, but not a wife
Author	andyAtCA
Upvotes	6
Comments	9
Date	December 29, 2016 8:25 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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