Just to get this out the way:
5’10, 248, full beard, 24yo working full-time job, started lifting 2-4x weekly since October
I have no problem cold approaching women and taking rejection. Based on the sidebar and rp knowledge I think I’m at 4 (at best.) As I continue to improve my SMV and game, I’ve been thinking about how the dating game will be in the next few years.
I don’t plan on getting abs right away, I know this takes time and discipline. My goal is to look good for myself & increase my self-esteem. Switching gears, I see how men of the manosphere and rp culture talk about women hitting the wall in once they turn 30 (some before 30) and how women from 18-late 20s are basically “having fun” and getting passed around. I live in the mid-west so most women my age are riding the CC and getting in toxic relationships/attention whores.
My thing is, I feel like as I continue to get older and improve myself, there won’t be any decent options of women to choose from. I do want a ltr eventually but realistically if I’m a 4 looking for a 6-8, it won’t work, so I need to keep improving. Women are getting bigger, becoming single mothers, and men are becoming more desperate. I see this and will not allow myself to be sucked into this wave. I don’t mind surviving a sex drought to get better, I’ve done so before. Yet, its getting rare nowadays to find single, childless fit women. By the time I become a 6 or 7, my pool of options will not be good.
Any one else feel this way? Or am I overthinking?
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